My mother-in-law and I have always gotten along ecceptionaly well. We would hang out together all the time. Until today, out of the blue she calls my husband and tells him she thinks I am seeing someone else!!! and that i want to divorce him!!! I couldn't belive it. I was just at her house last night! She is has "F"in gone crazy, I love my husband and would not cheat on him. What am i going to do, he is listening to her!!!
2007-06-17 06:17:32 · 20 answers · asked by ga_miss_thang777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What I really wanna do is go over there and kick her A**!!!!
2007-06-17 06:25:05 · update #1
Well it's his mom so he's always gonna trust her for a second. Ask him why you would cheat on him and if he's been worried about that. Then try to talk it out and see if you can't reach some agreement. But calling and cursing out his mom wouldn't make things any better for you.
2007-06-17 06:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First you should talk to your husband and be sure to let him know that you are not happy with your mother saying these things. Second, when you have calmed down, go and talk to your mother in law. Find out why she said these things and reassure her that you are not cheating on your husband. You two had a good relationship and as friends/family you should talk it out before causing an even bigger family rift.
2007-06-17 06:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Look your husband straight in the eye and say, honey, what do you think is up with your mother? Is she unusually stressed out for some reason that is causing her to have these hallucinations? She's never acted like this to me before!
Don't take your eyes from his. No dishonest person would stare into their spouses eyes without blinking.
Guilty people can't do it, and they don't realize their body language is giving them away. Laugh and say, wow! this is just as much news to me as it is to you!
Don't call her. It will only turn into an argument. She's obviously gone a little nutso.
Tell your husband you will speak to your mother in law again as soon as she is ready to apologize.
2007-06-17 06:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh thats terrible!!!why not talk to your mother-in-law about the problem as calmly as you can and then explained to her that you cannot do that to her son bec you love your husband so much but before you talk to your mother-in-law, talk to your husband first about the situation so that he will know and give him an assurance that what his mother thinks is all wrong and untrue.remember communication is the best way to resolve a problem
2007-06-17 06:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by AILEEN F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't call her till you calm down it will get bad if you call while you are made. But in time find out why she has said this and find out from your husband why he believes her over you.
2007-06-19 08:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by GLENN W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over there with your husband and confront her. Be polite but firm, don't let your anger come out of your mouth. If she is making accusations ask her to prove them. I bet this will go away.
2007-06-17 06:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you better straighten him out if he is listening to her unless she has some kind of proof why would he believe her over you and bitching her out will only make it harder to get along with her later so just stay clear of her until you calm down yourself or it will get out of hand.
2007-06-17 06:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should probably just leave it alone, she is going to think whatever she wants and any attempts at defending yourself she will think it is a lie anyway. Just tell your husband the truth and reassure him. And if she says anything to you, simply say, "PROVE IT!"
2007-06-17 06:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to have to convince him that you're devoted to him, but be careful not to attack his mother because obviously he is very attached to her still. An attack on his mother of any kind would just drive him further toward her point of view.
2007-06-17 06:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by jpistorius380@sbcglobal.net 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would call her and find out what the hell she is talking about. I suggest you stay calm...as hard as that will be...and talk to her about why she feels that way.
I can't believe your husband would believe her...I'm mad at her and I don't even know her!
2007-06-17 06:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋