With time, you realize that people aren't going to change, and some don't recognize their faults. I don't want a good friendship going to waste because I'm too stubborn to forgive. The only problem is that I tend to give people yet another chance. If you're also like that, let me tell you: don't give away too many chances. After a while, you start to see that people don't really learn from their mistakes, and every new chance you give them brings them further from trying to fix their faults.
2007-06-17 05:36:08
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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You ask some great questions... And yes I am a very forgiving person... But very fortunate that I don't have a lot of bad memories...
2007-06-17 12:37:44
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answered by ? 5
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If the bad memories happen once? I'm very quick to forgive and forget. But when it happens over-n-over? It's curtains!!
2007-06-17 12:38:02
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answered by Nunya Bidniss 7
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I have no problem in the forgiving area, forgetting and moving on tends to slow me down some times though.
2007-06-17 14:39:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes
2007-06-17 12:30:27
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answered by Ash girl 4
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It depends.
Yes, if I was in a arguement/misunderstanding that is really stupid and isn't crucial to my friendship's demise.
But if someone starts unwarrented drama with me constantly and I get no benefits being in a relationship with that person then I no longer need them as friends. I don't need crappy friends because it's your friends (and family) that help you through everything.
2007-06-17 12:36:59
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answered by pacman_sex 3
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not all people
there are a lot of people that caused a lot of troubles to me that i will never forgive them in the future
and there are a lot of people that didnt intend to hurt me , those kind of people i forgive them
2007-06-17 12:56:32
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answered by micho 7
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Yes, I have learned you have to for yourself. Forgiving others has very little to do with them, its about finding peace within yourself.
2007-06-17 12:32:27
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answered by KAT 4
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Yes I do , but sometimes I don't spend as much time with them anymore though . I don't usually hold grudges because I find that bothersome for me .
2007-06-17 12:32:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I have but not often. Once you hurt me I'm not quick to go back for seconds.
2007-06-17 12:33:58
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answered by Anonymous
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