I am 29 and she is 48 we been with each other for 4 years now and we share every thing with each other. The problem is I don't know if she is turned on any more we still have sex and she tells me she is very pleased but the reason im asking is because she stays dry most of the time. We have tryed lots of gels and oils but nothing is working. Is it me? What am I doing wrong?
2007-06-17 05:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by mrjts 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Age is what causes that. Women tend to have that problem as they get older. The only recommendation I can give as a woman is to buy a lubricating liquid, gels tend to go away to quickly. I believe KY has a fluid for that purpose.
2007-06-17 05:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does happen with age, but I would try forplay. Sometimes the female needs more time getting warmed up than a guy does. I would try doing different things to turn her on before sex and see if it gets any better.
You also could try baby oil. I know it's not supposed to be used in that manner, but I have used it and it works wonders! Good luck!!!
2007-06-17 12:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by dazed6900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had the dry problem until now and I am 45 - it is
I guess an age thing we are having and it is not you at all
just be thankful she is wanting it because for some reason
I could care less right now
2007-06-17 12:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by chris w 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Guy---everyone wants to blame old age---no... NO-NO forplay is what s wrong. No hot showers together??? No detachable shower massager on a hose. No tongue play.. Try it and it will not be dry. Neglecting each other.
2007-06-17 12:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Gerald 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens with age. It's not you.
2007-06-17 12:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by RadTech - BAS RT(R)(ARRT) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not u its just she is too old for u
2007-06-17 12:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋