my husband left me for another woman, but everytime he comes to see the children i end up sleeping with him, because i want his new woman to find out he is still a cheat, he did it to me with her, now he is doing it to her with me, am i playing a game that will backfire on me
2007-06-17 04:56:58 · 22 answers · asked by bex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What a lucky man to have you for an idiot of an ex-wife. The person you are hurting is yourself and eventually your kids.
2007-06-17 09:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time you do something for revenge you risk it backfiring. Move on, that is the best thing you can do to get back at him. Plus if he is that much of a cheat then you run the risk of catching something.
2007-06-17 05:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Backfire no, but why in the world would you want to sleep with a man who has cheated on YOU and left You for another woman. You should respect yourself a little bit more and make him pay for what he's done. You say you want her to know, why are you mad at her and not him?????
Let him dry please and stop giving him what he wants, he has ABSOLUTELY NO RESPECT FOR YOU OR ANY OTHER WOMEN.
Stand up and tell him to go get a hooker if he wants to get laid.
That's not revenge that's being stupid....
2007-06-17 05:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by johanne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, I would stop. What is this teaching your kids? I don't think you should keep doing this. Move on. Let him see his kids and let that be that. Sleeping with him may feel like your doing it for revenge, but you could still have feelings for him. This is a very dangerous game. Think about it. You'll make the right choice.
2007-06-17 05:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by onyx_2009 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you aren't playing anyone but yourself. my brother happens to be a notorious womanizer and he's often in this same situation. he finds it amusing that the women always try to sabotage each other when in fact, he never cares about any of them. if he loses one, he is immediately taken in by another woman. his rebound is so quick he doesn't miss a beat.
this man is using you and probably laughing inside while riding you. the sad part is that your kids will likely find out and think there may be hope for a reconciliation. but really it's just dad using mom and mom playing herself. so what if the new girl finds out? he'll have her replaced in no time because women love taking in stray men.
stop sleeping with him. it's not healthy for you and spending all this time trying to destroy someone's relationship is going to come back to you one day. you always reap what you sow. stop now and move on with your life with someone who loves you so you don't have to keep playing this games.
2007-06-17 05:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by t g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is the way your mind works, your entire life is going to backfire on you.
2007-06-17 05:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Moxie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two sides of the coin. You think you are one up. The guy gets free rides from both. YOu will know if and when you see a therapist.
2007-06-17 05:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it will how do you know if hes only with you and her? You have to be careful (std's). And besides ..... look at it this way you are only hurting yourself in the long run i know at the time it may seem like its worth it but its really not. your just letting him get the best of both worlds . isnt he the one to blame?
2007-06-17 05:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, as a matter of fact u should screw him so much he can't do her. meet at work, deliver a bj, and pick him up after and ride him silly. don't get pregnant tho, that will backfire. just steal his sexdrive from her.
2007-06-17 05:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by spotlite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not revenge, it's just stupid, extremely hypocritical, and immature. You're basically being the other woman now.
2007-06-17 06:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by evolving_hamasaki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋