How to make a girl feel secured in the initial courtship?

Answer 1

No one makes another feel secure. One is only able to make oneself secure.

Answer 2

For starters here are the basics.... :

Tell her you love her

Tell her you want to be with her

Tell her you think she's beautiful

Do your best to make her feel comfortable and loved around you so her fears and worries go away..she should know that you know, that all that matters is to you is for the two of you tobe together and be committed.

Then perhaps be affectionate with her anywhere where ever you are. May it be at home behind closed doors, her apartment/your apartment or you two together out in public

A girl/woman likes to be held, hugged, have her man wrap his arms around her to feel secure and loved and taken care of... in public... she likes to be shown off as the woman this man loves and adores.

Women like affection like hand holding, kissing, getting their neck kissed...when ever where ever..some may be more shy than others, but there's nothing wrong with squeezing your woman's or your man's butt in public.

Its kind of fun to watch people react to you wo being silly and loving with each other. They may say OMG GET A ROOM, but so what. :)

Treat a woman right, show her she matters and that the thought of you two as an item matter to you.

Tell her and re-assure her that you love her and are with her and want to be with her. Even if she doesn't ask or tell you she may be insecure at times, its always wonderful and re-assuring for a woman to know from a man "YES I WANT TO BE WITH YOU"..... and you are always beautiful. :)