Why do women get angry at men marrying foreign women ?

Question

I noticed some of them even slinging insults at them like calling them racist or opressive FOR MARRYING AN ASIAN WOMAN !!! It so does not make sense. Is it just the fear of some soon to be old maids looking for a hubby or is there more to it ?

Mike D do you live in America ?

Answer 1

I have never seen or heard of that happening. Perhaps these men are being called racist and oppressive for other reasons like the way they treat their wife.

Answer 2

I'm not sure what your last sentence mean. Certain cultures create women who are more submissive than others, but this merely a cultural difference and has nothing to do with one's strength or personal value. If you seek out to women to control, then I can understand the questions being raised. Other than that, when people judge you or put you down for being with a woman of a different race, I see no other reasons than ignorance, insecurity and jealousy.

Answer 3

Sometimes there's more to it than that. Does he expect the woman to be subservient? To wait on him hand and foot and do all the cooking and cleaning, etc?

Also, as an Asian myself, I am extremely aware of the Asian fetish some white guys have. To me it's rather demeaning to view my ethnic group (which is culturally rather diverse) as A) one giant cliche and B) something cheap and looked at in some kind of voyeuristic fashion. These guys help perpetuate Asian stereotypes rather than dispel them, and that's rather racist, IMO.

Answer 4

i think of alot of fellows who bypass exterior the rustic to detect females (mail order brides), arent quite being honest with themselves. Alot of those relationships are efficient, yet lots of them fail miserably, and that's as a results of fact the guy in question refuses to seem at himself as a results of fact the main significant clarification why his relationships dont artwork out. he's so rapid to blame all American females, yet whilst he is going exterior the rustic he has the comparable subject. i think of females get annoyed that some men might arrogantly think of that they have no longer something to do with the breakdown of a relationship. in the event that they have been such prizes than they might have not have been given any hassle getting alongside with their mail order brides. This has no longer something to do with low self-quite worth.

Answer 5

I have met many foreign women in their native lands. They uniformly refer to American women as having a bad attitude, catty, b*tchy, petty, and the most common description HIGH MAINTENANCE !

I think the American women know this. They don't want to admit that when compared to foreign women most American women don't stand a chance.

A bad point though, when you bring the foreign women to America many often become "contaminated" by the women here. I know a few guys that lived this one. NO they didn't become so called "equality for women" feminists, if those even exist.

They became petty and high maintenance.

Answer 6

Yes, why should they be angry at natural selection? The feminine women of other cultures, being more naturally attractive to men, are getting the men with good genes and passing along their own to the next generation, while the rest (and you know who you are) either don't reproduce or mate with weak men.

Answer 7

What's all this talk about Old Maids? Where I come from women think getting married to a man is a waste of a good woman. We are all spinsters of this parish, and not one wants to share a bed with, or pick up after a big slob whatever his nationality.

Answer 8

I'm an American woman. I don't have a problem with American men marrying someone from another country.

Answer 9

Marrying a foreign woman is fine. Mail-ordering a foreign woman to marry is different.

Answer 10

It forces many of them to view themselves as the antiquated creatures they have become. It's a slap in their face.