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My ex-girlfriend had an child 6 month ago I left her 9 months ago. We stay an distant apart from each other so I couldn't say that she was pregnant at the time. But I also have an child thats 2 years old {he's on the picture} by this girl. Other than an blood test how can I find out about this child being mine or not? And she want even tell me its mine,and I've been taking care of my son for the whole 2 years so theres no bad reputation of me being an bad father I love him and wants to be there for the other one if it's mine.

2007-06-16 21:11:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anthony R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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If the child is born premature then yes a woman can be six months pregnant and give birth to a baby that will most likely be hospitalized for 3-4 months. A baby born this premature would most likely weigh less then 2lbs.

2007-06-16 21:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

My niece was premature like that ,she spent the first month of her life in the hospital.The very first thing I would do would be is to get a DNA test as fast as possible on on both of the children so there is no question of paternity no room for lies. That way there is no he said she said it is right there is black and white on both children.You can say sorry darling it's not that I don't trust you but I don't want to live my life with the slightest bit of doubt I hope you can understand.And hopefully she can.And if she can't well we shall see when the test results come back as to why.I suggest a test for both children so there is not a misunderstanding.

2007-06-24 16:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Wow!guitar 5 · 0 0

The baby could most certainly be yours, but maybe the reason she won't cooperate with you is that she doesn't want you to find out that it's not (or who the real father is), since you were in a relationship with her at the time the child was conceived.

If you suspect this is your child, you may need to take her to court to assert your parental rights. Dads have rights too, as well as responsibilities. Contact your local family court to find out what procedures you need to follow to determine paternity, and once established, (if you're the Dad), make sure you have a positive role in your children's lives. Good luck.

2007-06-22 16:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes a woman can have a child at 6 months if she goes into labor early and has the child prematurely. It does have it's lungs and respiratory system at 6 months. I was born at 24 weeks so obviously I had lungs at 24 weeks.

2007-06-17 11:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I would say blood test. That's the only accuracy way I would do. Unless, you are scared of needles in which you might be trying to avoid ? They also have the swabs test that they take a swab for your mouth and one for the child's mouth to determine paternity results.

2007-06-16 21:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by shybutnaughty 1 · 0 0

i can relate on your tale and that i think for you. My husband of 7 years moved out of our mattress room whilst our in undemanding terms daughter became 6 months and then moved out after her first birthday. His clarification replaced into that he hadn't been in love with me for a protracted time and he disregarded those emotions because of the fact he needed a baby so badly. we've continually had a rocky courting, yet I surely theory there replaced into progression as quickly as we desperate to have a baby. I too, replaced into devastated, yet i'm now coming to realize that my destiny would be brighter devoid of him. Like your husband, he replaced into continually very extreme of sooo many stuff. It tore me down lots i could no longer make judgements on what to make for dinner or what duvet to purchase!!!! i began seeing a therapist which i could rather propose for you. it fairly is his undertaking, and not yours and additionally you mustn't think of approximately taking him back considering which you deserve extra suitable. the fact which you're 6 months pregnant and he's leaving devoid of attempting to shop the marriage proves how lots of a narcissist he's. he's the only that feels inadequate and which will in no way substitute. He envies you in some way as against appreciating you. i even have faith that a "good" guy will settle for you for all which you're, the coolest, the undesirable and the gruesome. you need to have assorted undesirable days earlier than you, yet there will be good days forward too. suitable now, attempt to pay interest on making waiting for the delivery of your baby. i replaced into no longer a woman that fairly yearned for a baby, yet i'll in no way forget approximately the 1st time I heard my daughter cry. It replaced into merely the flicks. the completed international stops. you could no longer pay attention something or seem at something yet your baby. that is incredibly an miraculous adventure and don't permit HIM take that remote from you. finally, he would be apologetic approximately it, yet you would be able to in no way comprehend it. he's a coward that won't be able to cope together with his very own short comings and inadequacy subject concerns. you would be a extra advantageous female on the different section and additionally you would be an miraculous occasion on your daughter whilst the time is nice for her to understand what incredibly exceeded off between the two one in each and every of you. have faith in your self and which you deserve extra suitable. Love and cherish that little female daily. you may get by this......

2016-10-17 12:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Either get a blood test or step up to the plate and father the child as though he/she was yours.

2007-06-22 14:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0 0

if a baby is born at 6mths (24 wks) the likely hood of baby being able to survive is not very good at all, so it sounds like that this baby is not yours....get a DNA test to find out

2007-06-22 14:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0 0

Yes, that is possible. My friend was three months early, but she had to stay in the hospital for about a month because she had premature lungs.

2007-06-17 03:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 1 · 0 0

my aunt had a baby in 6mo...... if she did it would just be really premature...... unless she tells u its urs the only way to know is a blood test....

2007-06-17 02:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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