2007-06-16 20:46:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have been together for 4 years and yes he knows that i know. I have just found out N im in a state of shock and sudden feeling of wanting to be sick.
2007-06-16 20:53:01 · update #1
We have been together for 4 years and yes he knows that i know. I have just found out N im in a state of shock and sudden feeling of wanting to be sick. Im im America at the moment N he's in the UK. Im home in 10 weeks, he should be able to wait.
2007-06-16 20:54:45 · update #2
Dump him
2007-06-16 20:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a clear signal that i shouldnt marry this person. Why will he do such thing? What are his values? What is he trying to achieve out of it? The mere fact the you posted this question here means you are not in agreement with what he is doing. If he can do it now then what more if you get married? Dont believe the line " Once we get married, I will change"! that's absolutely a BIG lie! a lot fall into that trap thinking that their partners will change, yes, he may change but it could be for the worst so brace yourself if you want to continue with just a relationship. Think things really over. The person you marry determines 90% of your happiness . Wishing you well.
2007-06-16 21:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your shock and disgust. If it was me (been with my partner 5 yrs) then I think I could forgive her. We would have to talk about it and see why she was doing it and what was fundamentally wrong within our relationship. If things couldn't be worked out then ok it would be time to call it a day.
I hope this gives you a good answer - If you still love each other and he shows regret, and you are able to discuss the issue and find out whats not right then I say give him a second chance.
2007-06-16 21:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just like every other female, they dont want to see past that there is a chance that their husband or boyfriend is cheating. You thought you knew the person, but they come out to be that they have desire for someone else. I would call her to find out what is going on. Women dont lie about what they do with your man. And than confront him that you know and if he denies it, than tell him that his other women told you what was going on. Dont be a fool and fall for him. There are more men out there willing to treat a women the way they should.
2016-05-17 21:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on girl, face it - if he is capable of hurting you like this, is he really the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. Get out now before it becomes too difficult. Look on the positive side, at least you found out before you wasted any more of your life with this perverted idiot!
2007-06-16 21:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by bubblybassoonist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would dump him it to me is a form of infertility and it makes you feel inferior however if you cant let him go and it is just one of those things you could suggest a break and say that you wont come back unless it stops but i feel the trust issue is broken for myself it would be a goodbye straight away he could have an affair later
2007-06-16 21:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he wants to send naked pictures of himself to a woman, he should be sending them to you. You're engaged, you've been in a long-term relationship, there should be a commitment there. Tell him that you don't approve, and wait to see if he stops doing it. If he doesn't, DUMP HIM. You deserve better than that.
2007-06-16 21:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Neely O'Hara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before leaving him... Have a party set up with all your girl friends... Bring you fiancee with you to the party... Dress him up, take pictures and send them out on the Internet... perhaps a before and after picture...
2007-06-16 21:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by shaaza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him to stop as he will get him self into bad trouble befor long as children view web sites.
2007-06-16 22:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate with him..find out why he did it ..then as to his reason why id deal with it as i felt right....people always deserve the right to explain themselves plus who has the right to judge anyone else...don't jump to conclusions he might be sending them to a photographer to get pics of him made up into a poster for you..and if you believe that you need help..
2007-06-16 21:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by vampblaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have it out with him. Can't see there being a innocent explanation, so really it seems down to it you can forgive and forget.
2007-06-16 20:49:54 · answer #11 · answered by BenignSource 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋