if so what did you do? how did it turn out?
2007-06-16 18:18:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Situations like that can be hard. The other person can manipulate you like crazy , cause they know you cant resist them . Even after its over , you never forget them .
2007-06-17 14:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After nearly ruining my life because I was so addicted, I left and never looked back. Every moment of every day for a long time was like opening up my heart with a razor but then it passed. I've actually been contacted several times but never have responded. I'm free.
2007-06-17 02:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually am attracted to users, but once I see their game they are kicked to the curb.
I also went out with a guy ho was abusive. Not to me, becuase when he tried that mess, he found out that this kitten has claws (so to speak). When he realized I wasn't going to fall for his $h-it he backed down and i removed him from my house (I will not brag as to how) he was sent on with his tail between his legs.
Ladies and Gents dont put up with abuse of any kind...you may love him or her but a closed fist isn't a sign of love, okay babies...and neither is words that are said that tear you down.
2007-06-17 01:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been incredibly attracted to someone I can't have. It sucks. Just have to realize I cannot have her and move on.
2007-06-17 05:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tamsin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been....and perhaps still am, but I have learned that you must match the words with the actions. People can tell you anything you want to hear, but it's action that counts....not words...I could tell you i'm gonna build you a 50 story skyscraper on the head of a pin, but unless it do that what does it mean? lol
2007-06-17 16:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by rob lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh definetly! I ignored everyone's opinion because I knew that I loved him and I wound up getting my heart broken and cheated on. And I will never be completely over him. I suggest if you are someone like that, find someone better before it's too late.
2007-06-17 01:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mariah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure....its very hard to get away from those type of people though...you keep telling your self that 'things will work out' and things like that...or 'we r just going through a rought time, I like da person so darn much...its gotta work' and things like that....I've seen it ACTUALLY WORK OUT...but but but...thats only like a very Very VERY small percentage...like 10%, the other 90% end in heartache and pain....
2007-06-17 01:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Joe A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was and still am attracted to a guy whos horrible for me.
hes more than three years older than me, hes had a serious gf for two and a half years but still flirts with me and tells me he wants me, he lives in another state, he ignores me for months at a time by not responding to my texts or IMs, he tells me that when i see him over the summer he wants to have sex with me (even though he has a seirous gf and theyre going to college together!), and basically he acts like this supersweet guy but really he isnt.
i am so attracted to him that i cant handle myself. i told him i would have sex with him when i see him even though im not that kindo f person at all but i told myself i wont do that because he doesnt deserve to have me for the way he treats me and the way he treats his gf! (he wants to cheat on her but he tells her he loves her all the time!!!)
if youre attracted to a guy thats bad for you, DONT GO FOR HIM PLEASE. it gonna be bad in the long run and you dont want to get too far into things that you cant back out. i know its hard to fight this feeling, but its probably not love. if it is love, then you guys are destined to be together and youll know that because he will change. if your meant to be, he has to change, thats just the way things work.
sorry for rambling so much.
good lucky hun.
2007-06-17 01:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... I took her home and got to know her a little better.... she was still bad for me... we went to bed together... she was very, very bad for me... she left... I got to the conclusion that bad girls are good ________ (I'm sure you can think of a word to end the phrase)
2007-06-17 01:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Fashionista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I left, because the relationship was one sided.
His needs only needed to be taken care of and not mine !!!!!
2007-06-17 10:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by fee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋