my bf went to a far country and he will be there for 7yrs. he told me that i am the last girl that he will love and he'll be back after those years to find me. but it's a doubt that the two of us NEVER met each other but we are sincere for what we feel for each other. [i really miss him guys]
2007-06-16 18:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by khenne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nope
2007-06-16 18:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Alpha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what your age is but regardless of age 7 years is a long time to be separated. The younger you are the more changes will take place as each of you mature. I would say that if you are under 20 it is asking too much of both of you to wait 7 years for someone who may change completely in that time frame.
The two of you can keep in contact and see how things seem to go but I don't think the two of you should isolate yourselves from dating other people.
2007-06-16 18:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I would have to say no. 7 years is a long time to be apart. Even if you tried to maintain contact by mail or phone. If you two could visit each other every few months for short times it might work.
I had a similar situation with my wife before we got married. I was away for 2 years as she finished college. We talked on the phone and wrote each other. If it was not for the vacations I took to go see her we would not have made it. It was a very rough time for the both of us. We have now been married for many years and I am glad that God blessed us with the strength to work it out.
2007-06-16 18:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by scotts1870 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust him. True love trusts[as hard as it is]. And if he respects your trust, then he'll stay faithful to you. If he doesn't...broken hearts are a part of life.
But, if it doesn't work out, remember, it's really hard to keep long distance relationships. I'm not saying that you should break it off, but you're both going to have to be dedicated to make this work. You're both going to change when you're away from eachother, and when he comes back[this is really pessimistic, but it's really honest too], you might not love eachother like you did because you didn't change together.
I really do hope things work out, though.
2007-06-16 18:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard!!!!!!!
Any of you may wait or drop. Almost the same story happened to my good friend. He went abroad to study,he went bact home to visit sometime after 3 years later to find out an ugly fact ----- his girl was engaged.
May be someone else out there has got another happy ending example?
If you're a believer,ask God.
God bless you.
2007-06-16 18:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by JW van JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years is a long, long time. Get on with your life. If things come together in the future, so be it. But don't spend all that time waiting. You can be sure he will be very busy and won't have a lot of time worrying about what you are doing.
2007-06-16 18:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireSeaFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you 7yrs is a long time things change,peoples opinions change,the way they feel,they meet new people and learn new things,and the world just keeps spinning.....but im wishing the best for you
2007-06-16 18:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff can happen in 7 years time. You'll most likely grow apart, other opportunities will come to each of you. The outcome doesn't look good. But good luck :)
2007-06-16 18:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty improbable. Write to him and keep in contact, but don't pledge to not date other people. Be open to meeting others and getting to know them. Learn to know yourself, too.
2007-06-16 18:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sorry but they NEVER keep their promises especially abou that
2007-06-16 18:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋