we really want to have a baby, me and my husband.... but we are 1 year and 7 months having sex but still not getting it...... im afraid to see obgyn? what would the best thing to be done? God bless
2007-06-16 15:58:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Elevate your hips for 20 minutes after having sex. Buy ovulation kits at walmart to see when your best days are.
2007-06-16 16:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pregnant with Baby #2 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best thing to do would be to go to the doctor to get tested for infertility. Anything over a year means there could be problems. Although, it is possible that you are just missing your ovulation. Try taking an ovulation test and charting your menstration cycle. This will give you approximate optimum days to conceive. You shouldn't be afraid to see your doctor. If it is because you do not want to hear that you need help conceiving, you cannot worry about that. The doctor has the ability to find out why you aren't conceiving and to help you in the process. If it is your doctor, find another one. You should be comfortable going to them with questions and concerns. Good luck!
2007-06-17 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by ciessa1203 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to your OBGYN. He or she can help you. You may not necessarily have a problem with conceiving, maybe with timing. He or she can give you helpful tips on determining the best time to try and what can increase you chances. The doctor can also help you get your body into an optimal state like starting prenatal vitamins before even conceiving.
Try not to stress out about it too much as well. The undue stress will just make your hormones flucuate and make conceiving harder.
Hope that helps!
2007-06-17 00:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by poohbearskeeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a obgyn to check yourself. Perhaps there is some kind of complication with you, or him. He also should get his sperm count check. Studies shows that 1% of all the sperm that the men injaculate into the woman is the one that gets the woman pregnant. The best time to get pregnant is when you are ovulating. A few days before your period. You guys need to enjoy your sex, dont think about having a baby and relax. Good luck.
2007-06-16 23:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by la negrita de Brooklyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband need to see the doctor and get tested. WHY are you afraid to see obgyn. Are you not telling us something? They can check your husband in a few minutes. Don't Waite just do it..
2007-06-16 23:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Flat_out_Bob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you go to the obgyn yearly for your paps? If not you may have a condition that you do not know about that may be preventing you from or making it difficult for you to concieve. If you and your husband truly want a child and you are having this issue, it is imperrative that you go see an ob doc. Once you are pregnant you will have to go anyway...JUST GO!
2007-06-16 23:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by resq-girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should discuss this with your doctor - knowledge is power, and you need to know that you are both healthy and ready to conceive.
Here are some really good sites that may help you along..ovulation calendars, and other things to consider when you are try to conceive...
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/ovulationcalendar.html
http://www.babycenter.com/calculators/ovulation/
http://www.babycenter.com/gettingpregnant
http://parenting.ivillage.com/ttc/topics/0,,4rwd,00.html
http://www.babiesonline.com/ttc/
Realize that these things do not happen over night for a lot of couples...I truly wish you the best! Good Luck!
2007-06-16 23:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by samantha 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for a couple more months if you are leery of the doctor. Use ovulation kits and test your basal body temp. If after your set time you still have not concieved, do some research and see your physician. He/she may have some helpful tips on some things you may have not tried yet. They may not be so quick to jump into fertility drugs or that stuff until you are comfortable to do so.
2007-06-16 23:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by pixie22406 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have been trying a year or more, it's time to see the doctor.
You are going to have to see the OB/GYN when you get pregnant anyway, so go now. Some things in men or women can be easily remedied, and times a'waistin'!
Meanwhile, take good care of yourself, and pray.
2007-06-16 23:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't be afraid to go to the doctor.You won't know if you don't go.It could be something that's so simple and could be treated with a shot.You'll be very surprised how sometimes concieving could be delayed due to bad timing.You must keep up with your cycles.I know you don't want to hear it,but I serious.You haf to know your body.GOODLUCK!I really mean it.
2007-06-16 23:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋