people calling me names (like skank and whore) when I know I'm not....
P.S. It's a certain person/people
2007-06-16 15:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, I don't have a reputation, AT ALL.
2007-06-16 16:01:05 · update #1
just ignore them... they're just jealous of something you have and they want it.
2007-06-16 15:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are they calling you names?? Especially skank and whore?? Do you have a bad reputation? Either way just ignore it. In my days people called other people that because they slept with so many guys and if that is the case then you need to stop and or slow down. Your life is yours and you live it as you want, but if you are going to be with more than one partner do it discreet. My advice to you is just ignore them. If they see that it doesnt bother you they will stop. They strive at you getting upset and all out of shape. If you are not waht they are calling you then dont let it get to you.
2007-06-16 22:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by la negrita de Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dont even think about it, if they arent really your friends then screw them, maybe they are just jealous, for instance i went out with this guy over a year ago. and then his new girlfriend kept calling me skank and whore, just because she knew i could have him back but i didnt want him back, and i pretty much ignored her everytime she called me it, she finally got so fed up with me ignoring her she had no friends etc. so if i were you stick to your true friends and blow off anyone who isnt because people out there are just jealous or have no life and want to make yours miserable
2007-06-16 22:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by leslie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them .that is the short and sweet answer.These types of people like bullies are insecure,scared,and looking for attention.By trying to make you feel small--the name calling--they expect to make themselves feel big and important.When you run into them again,and they call you names, smile and walk away even if the name-calling hurts.Good luck.
2007-06-16 23:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one. My heart goes out to you. My dad is 90 years old & to this
day he thinks I am a piece of garbage. He has lied about me & turned my 2
sisters against me. But, do you know what I learned? I needed to forgive him and his lies, and I told him I forgave him. His response, doesn't know what I am talking about. The reason he despises me? My birth mother left him for another man and had 3 kids by him. My dad and his mother couldn't get even with her so they took it out on me. Why? I apparently resemble her. My dad's mother is dead and I was prompted by God to write a letter of forgiveness to her and then destroy the letter, which I did. It worked. There will always be
people that will be out to hurt you, lie about you and anything else. Forgiveness is not easy, but it is freeing. If people want to say things, consider
the source, smile and they'll be left wondering why you aren't bent out of shape by it. Don't get even by saying things about them; then you will be as
bad as they are. God bless you. I am so sorry you are going through this.
2007-06-16 23:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly not then your not. They or that person maybe just jealous of you. Maybe be you have certain things "she" may not have or you look better people say things cause their immature. just forget what they say laugh it off and think positive facts are facts UR NOT A WHORE! duh so stop being so down!
2007-06-16 22:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face your head up and do not mind those mean people. Those people only want to see your reaction when they call you those names. Only when you do not show any reaction will make them feel like total idiots.
2007-06-16 23:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Minor Bunny Engine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend had the same problem, and its usually because people are jelous, honestly, they need to bring you down to put themselves up, if i was you [[this is what i do]] just tell them that you are and they can write it on your *** for all to see, then they just stay quiet [[the dont know wuh to say]]
2007-06-16 22:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with em then they cant call you that or it would make them look bad for being with a skank whore
2007-06-16 22:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron A 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore them..they're probably just jealous =]
Good luck!
2007-06-16 22:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by H0TTCHiCK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋