anyways, I dont like her cause she has nasty pics up and I have asked him to delete her but he will not...this is making me annoyed cause if this chick means nothing then why won the get rid of her.
2007-06-16 15:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he won't get rid of her because there's no reason to. you are just being over controlling and possessive. i have a myspace page and some of my friends are people that i was involved with before i met my husband. he knows this and is fine with it. some of them have pictures that are less than tasteful, but it's their page and not mine and i have no control over it. get over it before he gets over you.
2007-06-16 16:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why should he have to get rid of her? Is there some law, where you can't be friends with exes? I hope not, or else I wouldn't have any friends. He doesn't seem to be doing anything wrong. I think that if you want to keep your man, you will smarten up and address the jealousy issues. Now what's important, being with your man, or having that girl as a friend?
2007-06-16 22:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you are trying to force him to do it instead of him doing it because he wants to. And is the only reason you don't like her because of the pics? If so I wouldn't be too worried that he had her on the page. But then again I wouldn't be prone to get all that upset about stuff on MySpace anyway.
2007-06-16 23:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't *make* him get rid of her.
But neither do you have to stay in a relationship with someone who won't let go of the past, and insists on maintaining a relationship with an ex who makes you uncomfortable.
I'm not saying that you should give him an ultimatum. But if he won't do anything to make you more comfortable about how he relates to his ex... he's not respecting your relationship, and you should walk.
2007-06-16 23:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's because there's something going on....duh?! sorry to say mija, but, your bf obviously still has feeling for this girl since he won't delete her off his page! Because if he had NO feeling for her he woulda deleted her when you had asked him to or told him about it...howeva you went about lett'n him know u didn't like her on his page! You know what i'm say'n??!
2007-06-16 23:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mariana A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he likes to stay in touch with friends, or feels like you are controlling his life.
I would work on your insecurities and trust before badgering him about a girl that means nothing.
2007-06-16 22:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DUMP THE JERK IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE IS STILL HUNG UP ON THIS OTHER GIRL. GET RID OFF HIM BEFORE HE HURTS YOUR FEELINGS. IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU ENOUGH TO DELETE AND STOP COMMUNICATION WITH THIS OTHER GIRL. HE DESERVES TO BE DUMPED AND YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED BETTER.
2007-06-16 23:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He said she means nothing so let it alone. If there's no trust there's no relationship.
Unless he's doing things that make you suspicious this is your problem....not his.
2007-06-16 22:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how u feel and if he won't delete her than obviously there's a reason.
2007-06-16 22:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a good point. He can't let go of the past, so why would you believe he would want a future with you. Time to dump him.
2007-06-16 22:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋