I'm 13 and I've never done any of those. Everyone else has and I feel so left out. And one more thing, I don't even know how to flirt with a guy!! That's my BIG question...HOW DO YOU FLIRT WITH A GUY?!?!?!
2007-06-16 15:36:20 · 15 answers · asked by Dancin' HOTTIE!! 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Smile, make converstion, touch hands and just let him know you are interested without coming out and saying it
2007-06-16 15:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by MOMMY585 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Okay, so obviously your adverge 15 year old lesbian can't exactly answer the question about flirting with a guy, but I will tell you. I was 11 when I had my first kiss...I was a total mess when I met her and things just sort of sparked...I cannot tell you how to meet or know when you've found your perfect, as each person is different. You arn't being left out one bit! At the start our relationship was a little bit weird...A little bit normal I guess considering I was isolated for 3 years before I met my friend friend! How you flirt? Just stair into there eyes and look passonite, that is what I do!
2007-06-16 19:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend, been kissed, or anything. So don't feel bad because honestly I know many people who are like me that have never had a boyfriend or been kissed in their life! The media just makes it look like you should be dating and stuff, but honestly from what I've heard from my friends who have had boyfriends in their teens, it's all pretty overrated. I've already had two friends get pregnant too. Trust me, it's probably best if you wait until you're older to date because it seems that relationships between older people are much more mature and occur on a deeper level. Besides, according to psychologists one is not mentally mature until 25. Therefore, one is still open to mental changes up until that age or a little after. So don't worry, you're not alone and I'm sure there is someone great for you in the future when you're older.
2007-06-16 18:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by shieldmaiden5678 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats okay im 13 too, none of my friends have either. actually, im pretty much the only one of my friends that even has a boyfriend and flirts.
okay, how to flirt...
well what i've been doing lately is that my guys friends have been poking me in the sides, right, and i poke them back and we pretty much tickle eachother. its like an ongoing thing that's been going on between me and all of them for like the past week i guess.
do you have any crazy guys friends in school that are like fun or like play beat each other up and mess around? those are the kind of kids you flirt like this with.
just to let you know, flirting is pretty much giving little hints that you like like someone but like a subtle way that could also be taken as joking around. or you laugh at the things they say, only if you understand it though. and make inside jokes with them..
hope this helped. sorry it was long. i would just hate to know how you feel and the only reason i know this is because i've been best friends with boys my whole life and want to help you out.
2007-06-16 17:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by gracie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna flirt, just talk with the "special someone" as if you were one of the guys. Be a little sarcastic, give "Hints" that you're interested, and overall, be yourself because if you end up going out with a guy with a bad personality you'll regret it. Don't ask any questions like "will you go out with me?" too soon. Also, if guys don't find you attractive, you're sunk. If a guy really really likes you, he'll probably ask you out before you get a chance to ask him out.
2007-06-16 15:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by delta.2777 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay
1. the best way to flirt is to just go and talk to a guy, like walk up say hi and just pick a topic that he likes and go.
2. you don't need to rush into any thing. most girls that do end up with a broken heart and and baby on there hip.
2007-06-16 16:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by cutiek101 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you flirt with a guy just make jokes back and forth and laugh in a cute way you sound like a person ho might watch hanna motana was trying to prove to lily that her bf was cheating on her and when they were sitting at the table in that fancy resturant and hanah montana waved and told him ho ute his hair was it kinda like that (flirting)
2007-06-20 12:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your only 13 so i think you should have time for that, when you want to flirt it will just come to you.
2007-06-20 03:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont worry about it. im in the same boat and i will be 17 in july. no worries just go with the flow and be yourself and honestly its better to wait for now theres A LOT less drama without the relationship or whatever you call it.
2007-06-16 16:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by courtney 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a 13 year old would make out that early. when you flirt, you laugh and smile a lot. you know let him know you are interested. for your first kiss, you have to wait for the right time, and the right guy.
Dont let anyone bring you down!
♥mEliNa
2007-06-16 15:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
smile and talk with them. don't worry about flirting so much you are still very young and have many years ahead of you to do this
2007-06-20 10:48:20 · answer #11 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋