ok, me and muh girl are 19. im in college and she's not. i only see her durin some weekends and during breaks. she recently told me she was pregnant. but before i found this out, since we been together, she said she been using birthcontrol. We also use a condom too. We have had no problems with broken condoms or anythang. so through birthcontrol and condom she somehow got pregnant. My fam says i should get a DNA test when the child is born. And some think she may have been lying about taking birth control. Is it still possible to get pregnant through a condom and birthcontrol?
2007-06-16 14:10:43 · 21 answers · asked by bacdafuxup 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it is possible but highly unlikely if they were both used properly. If you have any doubt its not yours-- get it checked out.
2007-06-16 14:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by geekyoldman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely unlikely if she was taking her pills properly (i.e., at the same time every day), but possible. Chances are she either was really bad about taking the pills, since you said you haven't had any condom issues, is lying about being pregnant, or is cheating and trying to foist someone else's pregnancy off on you. Be suspicious and alert, but try to find out what happened before you fly off the handle at her and accuse her of anything. Start by interrogating her on how good she was about taking the pill at the same time every day.
If she swears up and down that she did, then ask her how SHE thinks this could have possibly happened then, and think about how much you trust her, and if you want to see some proof (ex. home pregnancy test or doctor's note) that she is actually pregnant, or if you really do think she's been cheating on you. If it does turn out to be yours and it really was just a freak mistake, you don't want to have all these false accusations of lying and cheating hanging in the air when she didn't do it.
Good luck with this.
2007-06-16 21:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by a female 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For her to be pregnant, that means she was ovulating, the condom broke AND she forgot to take her birth control pills or didn't take them correctly. The odds of that happening are extremely small (it's like hitting the lottery), but then again anything's possible. You're better off getting the DNA test done, but beware that she most likely will be very upset with you for asking for the test.
2007-06-16 21:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by NY Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's possible to get pregnant on the pill (personal experience) and I know it's possible to get pregnant with the use of condoms, however, I think the chances of getting pregnant while using both would be slim to none. I guess stranger things have happened, but if you have doubt in your mind that the child is yours then I would recommend getting the DNA test. Good luck!
2007-06-16 21:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy2One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to get pregnant from condoms and birth control. Yeah, if your not using them. It's something fishy about that one. I would try to find out everything I could about this pregnancy. I mean, not to break your trust with her, but you can never be too sure. Whatever you feel is comfortable. Have you ever seen her using birth control? Maybe she told you that just to make you think she was on birth control. Honestly, I got pregnant twice while I was on birth control, but thats because I wasn't using them properly. Good Luck!
2007-06-16 21:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♥~Kia~♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to get pregnant just by using birth control but if you have used a condom/birth control EVERY time and it has never ever slipped off its merely impossible...She may just be lying about being pregnant i would look into a little more!
2007-06-16 21:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was not on the pill, or if she didn't use it properly, then there's about a 5% chance that the condom failed.
I would question whether or not you are the father, or even if she's pregnant at all...she may just be trying to "snag" you.
Beware of women like her. And there's a lot of them out there.
2007-06-16 21:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but highly unlikely with both a barrier method and hormones combined. I agree that you should insist on a paternity test when the child is born (if she actually is pregnant).
How on earth did you get into college with such poor writing skills? Study hard and learn to communicate more effectively, because if the child is yours, you will need a good job to support it.
2007-06-16 21:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by HearKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but more of a chance of using no birth control. I think someone was a little irresponsible here and is not willing to admit it .
FYI: If you are in college, you must seriously consider your grammar if you want to graduate some day before you turn 60 years old .
2007-06-16 21:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to get pregnant while on birthcontrol pills. it is a well known fact that it can cause weight gain, mood swings, break through ovulation/bleeding, blood clots, PE, and even a pregnancy.
in some states it is illegal to have sex with a girl under 18 yrs. of age. that is considered statuatory rape.
2007-06-16 21:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know at least 4 children that were born on birthcontrol but it sounds shady to me. I would definitly have that DNA test.
2007-06-16 21:15:34 · answer #11 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋