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okay,. well today i was talking tom my aunt about some things and then she brought up the interracial thing. and i was like omg here we go. so she gave me about an hours worth of a lecture as to y i find men from diffrnt back more attractive than my own..
and thn..it hit me. she said that alot of black men and women have self hatred about themslves to not date within their race. and thats y they date black me & ppl from diff races. she said that she dsnt have a problm with interracial dating but she wants a dark black man anyway, she said that she thinks i have self hatred because i am more attracted towards asian guys and white guys than black.??
then he told me about the whole slavery thing and how black ppl were treadted etc.. iknow all of that already and how they or we were treated. i was so infuriated that she said im looking at other guys diff from my own race because theirs somthing i dnt like bout myself. thats a load of bullsh!t. i just so happen 2 find asians attrc.thanblk

2007-06-16 11:16:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Then why do white people date out of their race? Is it self-hatred or guilt thing? Why is it only the minorities that hate themselves? These theories are always one-sided. But, it never hurts to ask yourself why you want to date out of the race. Is it because you really like them or you want acceptance?

2007-06-17 07:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 0 1

first of all, a human is a human, no matter what the race. and you should tell your aunt that you will follow your heart, not your race. if you fall in love with a black man, white man, aisan man, green man, it is your heart you are following. and for the slavery thing, that was in the `past, and people dont own people anymore for slaves. ask her how she figures how you have self hatred for liking someone out of your race.

2007-06-16 11:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by della 4 · 1 0

hmm that sounds sort of backward on the portion of your aunt...it is not referred to as self-hatred that is referred to as your determination. after all, you haven't any longer have been given gender-hatred merely considering which you bypass out with adult males and not women suitable?

2016-10-17 12:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Girl, don't look for any race. Let the right man find you. I promise you the aunt will get over it if she disagrees, if she don't, at least you are happy with him, right?
Flirt around, see what you like, not what they look like.
Be happy.

2007-06-16 12:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by shefairy2000 2 · 0 0

She is only putting her issues on u just ignor her.

2007-06-16 15:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0 0

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