if someone was interested in you but they knew you couldnt be with them, not because u didnt want to but because u just couldnt. then half a year later they are still bitter and try to get you back by staring at you all the time (sometimes flirty, sometimes stalkerish/creepy)and showing off his new g/f in front of you, and then ignoring you on purpose, but is always hanging out nearby, is it because of enormous pride or do they have a subconscious attraction to you still?
2007-06-16 11:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Zoe1 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is definitely still attracted to you, I don't do this myself, but a couple insecure friends of mine pull this **** all the time. He's still never going to get over the fact that he couldn't have you in the first place so I say don't give in to him. If there's a reason why you can't, then make it clear to him why you can't.
Best of luck.
2007-06-16 11:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Richard Anderson, M.D., M.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I hope this guy is an adolescent, and I hope you are also. That would explain this behavior. If you are adolescents, then I would not spend much time worrying about it because, thankfully, you will have a number more years to respond to your emotions in more mature ways, I hope. Then you should both be ready. Study hard, because establishing yourself in a career, and a boyfriend that is also established, is usually more indicative of a lasting relationship.
2007-06-16 18:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone with mental problems. Stay away from him.
2007-06-16 18:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person sounds like they have an unhealthy obsession. Either avoid them or report them to someone, like the police -- or their parents.
2007-06-16 18:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Resident Heretic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he couldnt control you or the situation so he is going to pull all this crap. He doesnt sound like he is worth being around.
2007-06-16 18:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a creep, he might even be dangerous. Break off all contact,or if you can't, at least avoid him. He's bad news.
2007-06-16 18:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be trying to rub it in ur face that u did go out with him and that he moved on, but it doesn't sound like he did
yea just stay away from him
2007-06-16 19:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Josue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he still likes u and when u said no to him u made him feel real bad and now he wants u to feel how he did
2007-06-16 18:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by J.Stylein' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who got away. Celebrate!
2007-06-16 18:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by raisedbycoyotes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy is a creeper, stay away
2007-06-16 18:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by >wonder whats next< 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋