she once woke up to her grand father molesting her. her mom and dad are divoriced. she told her mom but she didnt believe her. and if she called the cops her dad would kill her mom. she know 12 or 13 wat should i tell her.
2007-06-16 09:32:00 · 12 answers · asked by Icky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the girl is now 12 are 13
2007-06-16 09:55:26 · update #1
tell her it's not her fault. tell her it was their problem, they had problems and did something very very wrong, and it hurt her, but it is their fault, not hers.
tell her that it doesn't make her "damaged"
tell her that this doesn't change that she is a good person.
and tell her you are very sorry for what they did to her, and then tell her that it's ok to trust men, because not all men are like that, they were messed up in the head, and real good men will be kind to her, and love her.
2007-06-16 09:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her tell her teacher at school. That teacher is required by law to report this to the police. Children services will come into the home and solve the problem for her. Both she and her mother are in serious danger. Her father should be locked up right away before he does something even worse to them.
2007-06-16 09:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you will be there for her and mean it.she is the victim here and its not her fault.she needs to call the cops and these child molesters need to go to jail. if this happened these people need to be in prison so they will not molest your friend or any other child again.these people never stop-- if i were a judge i would kill them all because there is no rehabilitation for these sick evil twisted monsters!just tell her to tell the truth it is the right thing to do! good luck.
2007-06-16 09:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops and get the hell out of the house away from that maniac Tell her to ask her mom to go out somewhere and when she is safely away she can call the cops and the father will go to jail and won't be able to inflict harm.
2007-06-16 09:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell her mom & dad to get a hold of me!!!!! Give them my e-mail addreess.
I was raped and abused by my mothers boyfriend from the ages 7 to 10. and I was told me and my mom would be killed if i told anyone. Now I am 35yrs old and i am a strong, fierce advocate for any child who is AFRAID. her parents are idiots and as far as im concerned, they dont give a **** about how this may effect her throughout her life. Listen to me buddy ok. encourage her to talk about it with you until she feels stronger and PLEASE CONTINUALY REASSURE HER THAT SHE DID NOTHING WRONG AND THAT IT WAS NOT HER FAULT. AND YOU, EVEN THOUGH SHE IS YOUR EX, KEEP THIS TO YOURSELF, DONT TELL ANYONE, UNLESS SHE TELLS YOU TO YOU COULD ASK HER IF YOU COULD TELL YOUR PARENTS, JUST REASSURE HER THAT IT WOULD BE SAFER FOR HER IF AN ADULT KNOWS, ESPECIALY AFTER WHAT HER DAD SAID
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2007-06-16 10:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a Pastor or a Counselor and tell them. They will have to report it. You could even call Social Services..............but tell somebody!
He's not going to kill anyone - that threat is just to frighten a young girl.............they all need help!
2007-06-18 10:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by fanofchan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm.......When I was 6, the same thing happened to me. I never really got over it. My boyfriend used to be all nice about it, but then he turn into a butthead. He is allways teasing me about it. So don't do that. Be nice and considerate about it, then she will think you are very nice, and find you trust worthy. Then she will tell you everything.
2007-06-16 09:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Emma P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops on him. That was a power trip threat.
2007-06-16 09:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Klingon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should really tell her u r there 4 her and to keep telling her parents and also tell her to tell her parents that if they don't do anything about it that she will
2007-06-16 09:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to help her...be there for her...do anything to get her away from that house...if anything happens to her and you didnt tell anyone, you will be kicking yourself for the rest of your life...trust me i know
2007-06-16 09:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋