2007-06-16 09:03:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
a month and a minimum of 7 dates
2007-06-16 09:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is never a right answer for this question, it may take one a month two or three, if it wasn't meant be it still won't work. In other cases you can only have few dates and sleep with each other after that and find that you end up having a lasting relationship.
In cases like this it is better to be ruled by your head than your heart and if you feel that you are not ready, don't do it just because the other person wants you too.
2007-06-17 06:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by soraya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on how the relationship is going so far and if they feel close enough and interested enough in each other to take that step. I think the timing is different for different people. I believe in getting to know the person a bit first and have that feeling that you would like to continue and grow in a relationship with that person. There are no rules or time limits on when to have sex. It's up to the 2 individuals involved and when they are comfortable enough to get intimate with each other.
2007-06-16 10:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks by then you have talked enough time for some action I think whether you are 20 30 40 or 50 age should not determine how long.
2007-06-16 09:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found it usually happens when it wants to, despite all efforts to wait... but, if you guys have been friends for a while you probably know each other pretty well, I suspect the tension is already there. If you don't and are just starting to get to know one another take maybe take it slower, especially since at that age there may be kids involved.
2007-06-16 09:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by decoy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you are looking for. If I was going to embark on a relationship with someone I would probably wait to get to know them. If you are not bothered about the long term then go for it (safely of course). If you are a woman - don't give it away to freely - whatever age you are!
2007-06-16 09:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on frequency of dates/time spent together. The nature of your relationship, are you flirty, outgoing etc or shy, nervous and reserved etc.
Wait a respectful amount out time, a couple of months ... as you get older it's not as big of a deal. Make advances if it feels right, you'll soon get the feeling if they are welcome or not.
On sex in the city, they rarely make it past a first date.
2007-06-16 09:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by l0bster_quadrille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the number of dates. I think a decent time would be about 3 months
2007-06-16 09:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by proud walker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think until you know that person inside out because you want to know that person is the one for YOU.
Not after a few drinks, or a few days. that is just so tacky!!!.
You will be more respected by feeling confident by your partner until you both know when the time is right
2007-06-16 09:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 2 hours.
2007-06-16 09:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
age should never be the issue its all down to when both partners feel ready and if you both love each other then i am sure you can wait.
Personally i would prefer the first night but i am not a very nice person.
2007-06-16 09:10:49 · answer #11 · answered by spaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋