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My casual boyfriend forced me to have sex last night.
We hadnt had sex in 2 months because I explaine dI ONLY wanted to have sex again in a serious relationship.
I let him come over to my house after saying only oral and kissing NO sex.
Well he got overexcited, and when I thought he was about to come from oral he told me to lie on my chaise/sofa. He pinned me in the corner, I said no seriously NO, he wriggled my tightly closed legs apart said he would just touch against outside instead he thrusted for like 5 minutes and i couldnt struggle because he is 6'3 hulking athletic guy and Im small.
H epulled out and thne went back in for another 2 minutes or so. :(
He came just as he pulle dout.
Very scared because Im in fertile cycle.
I have to break up because he didnt respect my NOs and my closed legs and squirming to get away.
But is PLAN B abortive ? I am against abortion but dont want HIS kid.
I want babies soon enough but not with him when he doesnt care that I DIDNT want sex

2007-06-16 07:29:08 · 19 answers · asked by Sarahafina 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

19 answers

I'm sorry that this happened to you and that he completely disrespected you and your wishes. You should tell the police if you haven't already.

To answer your question though...

Plan B is NOT an abortion pill like Methotrexate, Misoprostol or RU-486 (the abortion pill). If a woman is already pregnant Plan B will have NO affect on the baby. It will NOT kill the baby.

Plan B is basically just a higher dose of regular birth control pills, which are just hormones. It's not harmful at all to a baby! A lot of people are misinformed or uneducated about Plan B and how it works. Plan B PREVENTS pregnancy.

Take care!
http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/Index.aspx

2007-06-16 23:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 7 · 0 0

Well, there are a lot of people who will have VERY different opinions on this. In my personal opinion, if you would not like to have his child plan b would be a perfectly fine option for you. I personally do not consider it an abortion at this point. The sperm and egg would have only just met and are not even attached to the lining of your uterus yet. Studies have shown that the progesterone hormone in Plan B prevents ovulation but does not affect a fertilized egg, and therefore it's not really considered abortion. People mix up emergency contraception with abortion, and it is really inaccurate. Either way... Do what you think is right.

As far as the rest of the story, Honey, if you said NO... that's rape!!! Even if you were in a relationship or had sex with him before. No man has the right to violate you no matter how big or strong he is. You need to tell some one and get help.

I wish you all the best and perhaps you should get some counselling for this as well. You're in my thoughts sweetheart. Do what you feel is right.

2007-06-16 07:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Abbott*Lee's*Mommy 3 · 0 1

Plan B is only effective in the first 72 hours because it blocks the sperm from making contact with your eggs which are in the ovaries much like a condom blocks the sperm and in some cases will block the fertilization of the sperm and egg. It is considered by some to be a form of abortion but, it is not in most cases as the sperm has not made contact with the egg yet or the fertilization has not begun.
As to the soon to be loser. You were raped by this person and it needs to be treated as such. I know that you don't need to hear this from strangers but, you shouldn't have allowed youself to be in the situation where you had to try to stop him. Still, No means No and by not respecting your requests, he raped you. Call the police and report it.

2007-06-16 07:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by dadof7n2001 4 · 1 0

Well, first of all that sounds like rape to me. You could do something about that if you wanted....But plan B is a pill that you take within 3 days of unprotected sex. It is kind of like a lot of birth controls in one. Certain states have it available at pharmacies or you may have to call your doctor. And don't feel bad taking it....abortion and this is different. You don't know if your pregnant, your just taking precautions to prevent cell replication. Here is the website for plan B: read up on it and where to get it. Good luck....http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/Index.aspx

2007-06-16 07:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 3 0

First off, that is technically rape. You said no, and it was against your will. As much as you may not want to you should really go to the police station with your whole story. You don't know how many other women he has done this to, or will do this too. With his size it could escalate. I said could, not will though.

With plan B you are preventing pregnancy, not ending it. You need to get it very soon because if you wait it is too late.

2007-06-16 07:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes818 4 · 1 0

well first of all report the rape.
second it really depends on what you see as abortion. for the most part plan B will stop fertilization from happening, but in some cases it prevents a fertilized egg from implanting. if you do not consider either of these abortion, than NO. if you do consider either of those abortion, then YES.

good luck, and press charges!

2007-06-16 07:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Havanah_A 5 · 3 1

I hate those people that dont respect other poeple, is hard to get pregnant the first time dont worry that much, abortion should not be in your list beacuse is dangerous. Is probable that nothing is gonna happen unless you two are very very fertile and even in those cases takes time for the female body to adapt to someone sperm. At the begginning the body rejects the sperm, but after a while of having sex the body starts familiarizing with the sperm and is more probably to accept it. First of all go check a specialized doctor because the sooner the better. I hope you get better and principally to stop seeing that guy. Best wishes and get well.

2007-06-16 07:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos G 2 · 0 5

it only works after the first 72 hours. Then after that it doesn't work. Then your choices are going through with it or unfortunately is abortion.

2007-06-16 07:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sublime Girl 4 · 3 0

No, it is NOT an abortion, do not listen to anyone who tells you it is. It keeps the pregnancy from ever starting by blocking implantation. Get yourself Plan B now.

2007-06-16 07:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

its not. what it does is prevent the egg from being fertilized. its like a birth control pill with a stronger dose of hormones.

Good luck

p.s. report him to the police

2007-06-16 07:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by dbabyg4567 2 · 3 0

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