I am not saying that they should have sex after the marriage, just wondering if the guys would prefer a girl that is pure...
2007-06-16 06:47:22 · 27 answers · asked by nenndre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nenndre, Absolutley, positivley ! It is the most precious gift a bride could give !
2007-06-16 07:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Most guys I have talked to about this say they prefer a woman with experience. Some said that virgins were boring and unskilled lovers, but the majority wanted their wives to have been with other men so that the wife won't cheat becuase she feels she missed out on sexual experiences.
Another thing that is frequently brought up is that men and women prefer to have sex with at least their intended spouse so that they know if they are sexually compatable.
I think the old idea of a "pure" woman being more desirable is ridiculous. First off, most women that are virgins as adults are only technical virgins. They do everything but sex...not too pure. Secondly, most guys really couldn't care less as long as the woman and he are in love and she is having sex with him.
Thirdly, I think that old "pure" thing is still floating around because parents tell it to their teenage daughters so that the girl won't go out and get pregnant. Too bad they aren't giving a lecture on birth control instead.
2007-06-16 07:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 6⤋
It depends on the guy's upbringing and current situation. Some people who are raised to believe in abstinence prefer to have a pure woman for their first marriage. If a guy is older or has had a previous marriage he probably won't care at all.
2007-06-16 06:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Matt3471 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Look …. This is a tricky one.
Of course for someone .. knowing that his wife has “met” only him.. is a serious positive theme . But…..
There is the other side of the coin. And a more experience man should know that if your wife has “met” only you there is always the danger that she might at some point think of “meting” another man.
Look. . .every couple has its problems. At some point there will be maybe a crisis.
If .. . I said if .. the “virgin” one , in a crisis time , “goes” with another man , then she rarely goes back to her family.
I personally think that is better for women to know few things and have meet some few others before make a family.
NicolaS
(sorry for the spelling, I am greek)
2007-06-16 07:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by NicolaS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all want virgin wives who are well read on the subject , But they better want sex after the marriage ceromoney.Like the old saying....."A housewife in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom.
2007-06-16 07:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by reinformer 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Any guy worth his salt would prefer a virgin wife
2007-06-16 06:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
It would be great if you could find one
You would be able to teach them how to make love to you so the both of you could enjoy it. You should allow her to be open enough to tell you what feels good to her and let her realize in time what she may get more comfortable with.
Its every mans fantasy to create their own little love doll.
2007-06-16 07:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by OG 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on the guy. In todays society, I doubt there are very many virgins anyway, so it's not like most guys/girls have a choice.
2007-06-16 06:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some guys do cuz she's pure, some don't cuz they like a girl who's experienced...all depends on the guy.
2007-06-16 06:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I have yet to hear of a man holding out to marry only a virgin in a very long time. The last time I did was when Princess Diana was married. Men marry for love. And that is how it should be.
2007-06-16 06:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋