i am a 17 year old boy ... i am goodlooking a every thing but i couldnt make a girl freind yet and my freinds always make me fun.......when i want to talk with a girl i always say the worng things....and i freak them out....i also see my ugly friends that have 2-3 girl friends, but me.....!!!
i dont mean that girls hate me .. i mean i cant keep them by my side...
2007-06-16 06:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop trying so hard and stop looking.... You have a freak flag but you don't fly it... (from the movie The Family Stone)... First of all, you have to love yourself in order for other people to like you... So start by loving yourself as you are...
2007-06-16 06:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have obviously never seen you and only have your opinion on your looks, but if you really are good looking then that could be the problem. The good looking guys are often the ones girls will avoid because they are the ones who will suddenly change their minds about what they think and move on. Also looks aren't everything, giving a girl attention and being nice and flirty with her is much better than someone good looking who feels he is too good to make an effort. Try making a girl feel special once in a while and you will be more likely to get her then relying on your looks.
2007-06-16 06:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, the point to any relationship is showing you are truly interested in them. Do that by asking them about themselves. Don't talk about yourself. Only ask questions.
I can tell from you question that you are probably a pretty nice guy. But what I don't see is your physical side, and frankly I don't care what you look like. I want to know you heart and so does everyone else. You show it by being interested in only them.
2007-06-16 06:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act normal not like you can rule the world!! I know that I rather have a guy that's normal & every once in a while he says something wrong than a guy who tries to act all cool, but really he's a jerk inside!! so be true to your self & the right girl will come along & you both won't imagine yourselves being with anyone else so wait for the right girl & when she comes along you'll be glad you waited for her!! good luck
2007-06-16 06:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by hannahleigh♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be YOURSELF!! Don't force the issue, it will come naturally. When the right girl comes along, she will stand by your side. Your young, you have plenty of time to have many girls in your corner, take your time. Don't worry about what your friends are doing!! Be yourself!! That's all that matters. Things will work out, you'll see.
Good Luck!!
2007-06-16 06:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by linda b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding a girl u feel more comfortable around so that u wont freak out easily. who cares if ur friends have 2-3 gfs? ur unique for not having one for this long. try talking to girls in ur family and practice keeping a conversation going. that way u could talk to a girl.
2007-06-16 06:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends shouldn't be making fun of and the best way to get a girl is to be sweet and polite. Girls like it when guys act their age and have good manners. Don't let your friends get you down.
2007-06-16 06:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Prufrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honestly interested in them. You sound like you want to have a girlfriend to prove something about yourself instead of caring about them. Doesn't work.
2007-06-16 06:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by arlene k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww try talking 2 them and let them talk so that u can understand but dont gross them out,be polite and respect them.ya know.....ask them how was their day,make them happy without them actually having 2 tell u how,GOOD LUCK sweetie,i would probably try u but u a bit older then me
2007-06-16 06:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by teetabug13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure if you just be your self and relax you wont get to nervous. plus you learn from you mistakes ehh!!
2007-06-16 06:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋