Not just - three months later. The problem is that she is too lazy. She sleeps 18 hours a day))), then she chats, watching TV....I love her very much but I don"t like how she spends her days. Help me plzzz what can I do?
2007-06-16 06:03:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Aside from set the alarm clock you can get her butt up at a decent hour. Get her out of the house. Take her to a park for a walk, or to the mall. Life is much too precious and short for her to be sleeping it away. If push comes to show ask her to get a job. Good luck. Peace and God bless.
2007-06-16 06:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The first thing you should do is sit and talk with her. I don't know if she was like this before you two married, but I'm sure it didn't just happen after getting married. Help her get a job or go back to school. See if she wants to do volunteer work or help her find a hobby. I just recently got married in May and I have to admit after getting married I did let myself go a little. I gain almost 10lbs. My husband sat me down and we talked. We got a dog and started going on nice long walks. It help me lose weight and helped us communicate more. I hope this helps you.
2007-06-16 14:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by hellocutie05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor Beastard . I think thats why its important just to live together for a yr or two before marriage then you can weed out the lazy Jerks . Man now your stuck with her lazy A!
2007-06-16 13:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question did she act like this before marriage?
Secondly tell her she needs to get a job that you are not her meal ticket and she can help pay for stuff too.
Thirdly I think you need to talk to her and find out why she is acting this way it sounds to me like she is in a state of depression.
Good Luck and Best Wishes
P.S. maybe consider counselling.
2007-06-16 13:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.
that's the key in any Marriage.
Let her know not us that you can't live like this. She may not have ever had to clean the house so you may have to help her.
the only way to solve any problem is to let the other person know there is a problem.
and don't yell.
2007-06-16 13:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by G O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing 2 do is talk 2 her about it but try not 2 hurt her feeling or be blunt just try 2 tell her how u feel about her bad habits . cuz u don't want 2 ruin a marriage over that. : - )
2007-06-16 13:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jizzy F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her...in a nice way! Let her know the things that bother you and ask her if there are things about you that bother her. That way you can let her know you are trying to build your marriage instead of attacking her.
2007-06-16 13:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she like this BEFORE you married her? Because if she was...what made you think she was going to change? Why doesn't she have a JOB?!
2007-06-16 13:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by zeta121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set the rules straight for her, this is what needs to be done and when and if you do not get off your butt there's the door!!
2007-06-16 13:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she like this before marriage?? Remember you vowed for better or worse.
2007-06-20 11:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by sillylittlemonkee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋