i have been married for almost 4 years.....i have been reading peoples responses and they say to remember why we even got married.....what made us fall in love. Thats the thing though..we got married cause we got pregnant after dating for one month.Now we have a wonderful 3 year old but have nothing else in common...Shes not a bad person, it is that we simply have no common tastes. I guess i regret getting married but not having my daughter. Would do the same thing in a heart beat.
2007-06-16 05:52:45 · 7 answers · asked by Robert G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never tell her that you regret marrying her unless you're asking for a divorce in the same sentence first off. Also, if you know you dont love her then talk to her about it and find out if you really don't or if you're just bored. If you're bored or you find other problems work through them and see what happens. It could be that you're very happy with her but you ust don't know it. If you feel she's a great person but find the only thing wrong is that you have nothing in common then rethink what your options are. There are worse things that can occur in a marriage than boredom or a feeling that you 2 don't share hobby's. Work on that and maybe you'll see a newfound appreciation for her. If not, then end the marriage before you end up wasting both of your lives in a situation you refuse to repair. That's about it.
2007-06-16 06:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
only you truely know how you feel Im not saying get divorced............you did do the right thing by sticking around and being part of your daughters life it didnt mean that you had to marry her you all could have continued seeing each other to see if was going to work and still contienues to be there for the child everyone always says that we learn from our mistakes but if you say you would do the same thing all over again then obviously this wasnt a mistake so think about it...............are you willing to sacrifice the rest of your life and live like this or maybe find happiness somewhere else and still be involved with your daughter
2007-06-16 06:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by mmedina96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you get pregant marrage isnt the only choice. You can still have a happy life with your child without marring some one if people realized that there would be less divorce. Now Im not fussing I did the same thing and I learned the hard way for my mistake I still have two great kids I share with my x but now I have a wonderful husband who loves me as I do him.
2007-06-16 06:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not marry because of pregnacy.if your not content nor happy you are hurting not only your mate but yourself and the baby .i have been with the same woman for 30 years and i can say every 5 years you get another woman as she changs ever 5 years some 5 years prriods you well like more then others
2007-06-16 06:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and talk to her, and you never know she may feel the same way, you 2 may need to seperate and split custody of your daughter. But just talk to her about it so you can take into consideration how she feels also. And if you have no love for her, then no your marriage cannot be saved but if the love is still there then there is a chance you could save your marriage.
Good Luck!
2007-06-16 06:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a good person to marry her,but.... if it's not working out and yes, you will have a daughter to support and you already know this, maybe it's time to calls it quits.
2007-06-16 06:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SOMETIMES YOU CAN GROW TO LOVE THAT PERSON, THAN AGAIN YOU MAY WONDER WHAT THINGS WOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE WITH SOMEONE, THAT YOU REALLY LOVE AND LOVES YOU. I WOULD DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST, BUT THERE IS NOTHING BETTER THAN REAL LOVE.
2007-06-16 06:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by jlfrench1953 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋