Ok for some who will read the following will think I'm desperate....so just in case you read it....I'm not!! hehe
What do you think I should do I’m an 18yr old and really fed up of this routine and this whole friendship/love/family clap-trap. My family always turns me down, my dream is to go and live abroad--my family's reply is just "yeah keep on dreaming" or sarcastically "you could just leave now" when all they do is just over protect me cause I'm like a precious porcelain vase wahhaaa—Do they know that once I’m gonna be on my own..I’m the one who must grab the world before it grabs me anyways that's my dysfunctional family. Then the friendship theme wahhahha friendship...Do you still believe in REAL friendship? cause I don't anymore. I've been a hell of a good friend but as my old aunt says treat friends like ****..never tried his theory but I might as well try it what have I gotta loose?! My current FRIEND---we decide to go out a couple of hrs before she phones me and tells me to
2007-06-16 05:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by Amelie' 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
forget everything cause she gotta babysit her bro/is ill/has a headache…and an infinite number of fertile imaginative excuses! The least theme (don’t I look just like Shakespeare) LOVE. Well what shall I say…I’m just Brigit Jones the second have got my admirers but here I’m the down to turn them down…I’m afraid of committing due to my brother’s excellent life lessons…girls are like the a breeze of fresh air one is better that the other kiss one and look forward to another…OK OK I know not all males are made of the same **** so this might be generalizing but hey most of the guys think they’re gorgeous and some of them look like shrek…not so terribly pretty..ok ok fed up of writhing any suitable solution?!? Hehehe I know there isn’t just wanted to express the deep **** I’m into!!grr
2007-06-16 05:38:29 · update #1
Hey! Im 19 and OMG u sound just like me 6 months ago.
I had a friend just like yours. Then i gave up on her. I realised i was better with no one at least i would know where i stood and wouldnt be let down. So i turned the tables and ignored her. I wasnt going to be used anymore.
Now.. i havent spoken to her for 6 months. I quickly got other friends -better friends. REAL friends. I realised people had been staying away because of my so-called friend as i wasnt the only person she treated like ****. And I havent even missed her!
As far as blokes go, no they're not all a**holes, but a lot of them are. Its just a case of waiting around until a nice one comes along whose worth the effort. But for now i am single (by choice), although i do have a couple of nice guys interested in me at the moment that im getting to know so that might change soon.
I wanna travel too!! I also wanna go to uni. My family dont think i will but i am sure i will!! And you will too. Its not helpful having them being so sarcastic tho (just like mine are to me) maybe you should tell them not to do it. Although i know thats hard to do.
Anyway, things will get better. Give it a few months!! Good Luck with everything. Just look towards the future and believe that things will be better. x x x
2007-06-16 08:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by sparky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and work abroad it will be the best decision you could make and you will meet lots of new people and have a great time and learn lots of new things and your family and so called friends will still be in there boring lives wondering what you are up to, I left home at 15 ( not because it was bad just because I wanted to ) and moved 300 miles away for 12 months then I moved 500 miles away, I worked all over the UK, Spain, Holland and Germany, and thank god I did, I am so much more better for it, give it a go you can always go home if you do not like it. good luck.
2007-06-16 14:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me your just down on every one at the moment
if you wonna live abroad sort it make your dream come true prove to your family you can do it, as for your friends there are true friends out there you just have to pick them more wisely
and for your love don't listen to your brother sounds like to me he treats lady like crap, if you look for Mr right he'll come along
2007-06-16 12:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to just take a long breather from everything and... sounds like you need it. Seriously!. If you can't take a long trip, take a short trip.
2007-06-16 12:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋