My guy seems to have gone off his rocks! He puts me out last year becuase he says he dosent know whats out there for him and that he says i was gone all the time? anyways he calls me to say hes sorry and that he wants us to work out! and so now he comes from 1 city over to me to take me where i have to go.
but he lets me know that he can drop me like a bad habit if he wants.
he also lets me know hes a man, many women love him, and hes happy with his life, and he's moving up in his life ETC. He calls me like every 2 to 3 days to let me know how worthless i am and i dont cook for him anymore, and or have sex with him and im sad all the time: he says that if im sad or have problems to stay the fu?ck home and dont mess up his day???
okay if im so sorry to him why is he calling me and driving me me all around all the time and gets not money! and i barely want to talk to him on the phone. why does he hate me so much
2007-06-16 05:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Justice A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is real simple.Don't answer when he calls and don't go with him when he comes over.Best advice is to tell him to take a hike cause you are better than all that BS he is giving you.He sounds very controlling and manipulative.Loose the fool.
2007-06-16 05:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoah.... first off, I think ur asking the wrong question there coz it's not that he hates you.... it's that he's using you. You probably don't know it but you are in an abusive relationship. Only a bastard of a scumbag would do something like that to a lady. It's either that or he's developed some sort of mild schizophrenia without your knowledge. You have to end it. I honestly don't see any reason why you're hanging on to something that's never really been there in the first place. You gotta move on, there are others guys out there that are more than capable of treating you right. It's not right if your unhappy most of the time.
2007-06-16 12:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by unNamed 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a scumbag. Move on with your life. Be careful that he possibly hasn't already passed some STD off to you already.
He just wants to "Use" you as a convenience.
Yeah, sure many women "Love" him. It sounds as if he has become a male prostitute to a few loser females and wants to beat you down to their level.
Oh yeah, right, he lets you "know he's a man". How conceited is this ahole!
A decent man doesn't have to sound off about being a "man", the ladies can usually figure this one out themselves if he is truly acting like a decent one.
A good man won't treat you this way my dear.
You can do better. Leave the scumbag to his whores.
A decent female wants to be respected and treated like a lady, not some street corner hooker.
2007-06-16 12:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sticking with him and putting up with all this? He is only doing these things because he feels he can get away with it. Sounds like you have some self-esteem and assertiveness issues to deal with. Talk with a mental health worker or counselor and find out why you want to be around a person that treats you so poorly. No person deserves the treatment that you have described. Good luck.
2007-06-16 20:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dick Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying it appears this guy is a complete jerk and you need to tell him to leave you alone because the way he treats you is pathetic, mean and disrespectful. I think you just need to stand your ground and tell this guy to go to hell. You have a choice to make here and you shouldn't need our advice to know that the best thing to do is to get rid of him. He treats you like crap because you allow him to do it I bet the other women would tell him to get bent if he spoke to them in this manner. So with saying that he is treating these other women he has like angels, and he calls you every other day to vent his macho moron quality on you.
I hope you have the guts to tell this guy to hit the road and never to call you again you deserve better.
God Bless and Good Luck
2007-06-16 13:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is worthless. I never understood why some women put up with this kind of emotional abuse from their boyfriends.
You don't have to take that abuse from your boyfriend. Tell him if he doesn't start treating you well, then it's over. Remind him that he's not the only one with the power to end it. Stay strong when you tell him this.
2007-06-16 12:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother with such an @sshole? It must make him feel good to tell you how worthless you are. If you still elect to talk to him and let him drive you around, then the next time he belittles you tell him, yeah, that's because I'm hanging around with you.
2007-06-16 12:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has blinded him. I don't want to throw accusations but it seems that all he wants to share with you is a physical attraction. It's time to move on to someone who understands that a women iusn't a slave or a robot and someone who will respect your boundaries. Whatever happens, I wish you the best.
2007-06-16 12:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus IS REAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's terribly insecure and overcompensating by telling you how great everything is for him and how worthless you are. If you hang around withthis guy he will keep dragging you down. Move on.
2007-06-16 12:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by TG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a idiot lok dont tolerate what he has to say becasue its only bringin you down in the process so all i can really tell you is get rid of this guy and find someone who is going to appricate you for the person that you are, from what you wrote this guy is trying to control you so all i can say is get rid of him fast and find someone who is going to respect you for what you have to offer as a person.
2007-06-16 12:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by dodgers10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋