Wwhy are people being mean to me ?

Question

At Y!A

Answer 1

Sometimes these things happen!!!

Answer 2

I've never been mean to you...
Edited to add:
Ok, clicked on the previous question you asked and I see what you mean. Don't take what people say on here, to heart. Some people just get off on being mean and nasty. I have been called an attention seeker (I asked a question inspired by a song!!! I feel like I'm falling apart is a line from We belong together by Mariah Carey - I was not looking for attention, I was looking for glue or duct tape!) People sometimes just don't have anything nice to say. Ignore the negetive comments and go on.

Answer 3

Some people are mean because they have underlying insecurities and being mean to others makes them feel good about themselves (imagine that).
Some people are mean (and this is sad) because it is their defense mechinism. It's how they survive and what they know because they are being mistreated in some form maybe by a parent or guardian.
Then again some people are just plain mean. And to me, that is a form of abuse. It's called mental abuse. Abusive people, (and my step-mother told me this when I was younger), whether the abuse is physical, mental, or sexual, get their power by being in control. You do not ever, ever have to put up with any type of abuse from anyone!!!. The good thing is, You can control that. I will tell you what I tell my 13 yr. old son. Simply get away and stay away from the people who are mean to you. and don't treat you right. You don't have to hang out with them...even if they are considered popular. Furthermore, don't waste your time asking them why they are mean or telling them how it makes you feel because in the grand scheme of things, they really don't care and they feed off of what they consider your weakness. Also, they know exactly what they are doing and how they treat others. Even if you consider the person a good friend, don't put up with it. Let me tell you, good friends don't treat their friends that way. Sometimes a friend can come in many diguises. In otherwords, they are not really a friend...at all.
Have you ever heard of Desiderata?? It's a verse, kind of like a proverb, on life. It holds a lot of meaning. Find a copy and read it. I found one years ago in poster form and I read it often. Maybe you can google it.....good luck.
Never compromise who you know you are and/ or your morals and beliefs.

Answer 4

The whole world is mean now. I've seen it get meaner by the year. Wait 20 more years-you'll see it even more. People nowadays are rude, stupid and clueless. They have no respect for themselves much less anybody else. They also have no consideration for others either. That's why I am now Mean Gene. I call people out on it. I can't take it anymore.

Answer 5

The question reflects that you are very innocent and takes the things at par. The world is not such. You must deal with strong attitude and confidence. I hope you will be successful in your life. Best of luck.You r top contributor and heavy percent of best answers. No one can dare to behave in the manner you have stated.

Answer 6

Aren't they everywhere??? ppl who take a poke at you and then watch you as you writhe in agony??? why give them the pleasure??? your having posted this question only adds to their( contorted) convictions that they can hurt you through the medium of the internet,( their latest hunting ground) and see their taunts hitting home. Ignore them and just do what ever it is you do.... seeing as you are already best contributor, I know that you do what you do very well indeed....Good luck and keep it up. To hell with insignificant @ss***** who can't see someone doing well!!!!!!

Answer 7

Really? You should share with us how people are being mean to you at Y!A. As far as I know, I haven't done anything to depress you. Share your feelings with us, gal. Tell us exactly what the matter is about???

Answer 8

I agree, but not all of them, especially when you ask a question waiting for intresting answers eagerly, suddenly an answerer comes and posts his so silly answers that you have to beat him, but some are realy fair in their answers, they search the right answer to your question in several websites thinking that it will help you and make you happy, so not all the users are mean.............

Answer 9

I have no clue as to why anyone would be mean to you. YOU ARE such a NICE BEAUTIFUL person. I would never be mean to you. BUT maybe and this is just maybe, they are jealous of you as you have the TOP BADGE THINGY and they don't. I hope you have a wonderful GREAT WEEKEND.

Answer 10

i have seen u for the first time. but u must not feel bad of what people here say to u. if u dont like their advice then ignore them. dont think that they r mean to u.

Answer 11

I dont know you. I'm not being mean to you. Some people just like to be smart a****. Dont let it get to you to much.