Ive been mastubating sense i was 12...im 16 now and i still do it...when i was 12 my family life sucked and i mastubated almost every night...now i rarely do it....but i still do it...its like all dull...me and my girlfriend talk about sex a lot...like A LOT..we've been going out sense we were 13 so like 3 or 4 years...i told her that i masturbated and she said that she did too...me both really want to have sex...and we love we each other a lot...we both wanted to know if mastubation can damaged our parts or like stunt our growth...
and is 16 and shes 17...to young or no??
2007-06-15 23:22:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
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2007-06-15 23:27:47 · update #1
Masturbation, contrary to some religious beliefs is normal and healthy, although you have already spotted it can become an escapism valve. However, you now sound sorted on that one.
It will not harm you, so relax.
As for sex with your girlfriend...
You are both over the age of 16 so you are legally able to do so. However, you also need to learn about safe sex now. ALWAYS use a condom. Unplanned, and unwanted pregnancy destroys lives so does sexually transmitted diseases....so wise up on these issues, find out more about safe sex.
If the two of you go to a young persons sex clinic. (Usually one in most towns in UK) They will supply you with advice and condoms for free and it shows a responsible attitude to your sexual health. The service is confidential and your parents need never know.
As you are both so ready for sex, I strongly urge you to purchase protection if you don't wish to attend a clinic and be prepared. I say this because, one day, you will stop talking and sex will happen naturally. You must be prepared for that day. However, don't force it, it will happen naturally when you are both ready.
Good Luck
2007-06-15 23:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is entirely natural and healthy for people of all ages to do and enjoy.
The only time it can become a problem is if people masturbate on their own instead of getting around to finding a sexual partner - though even then it is fine if the intention is to just stay single.
Perfectly natural and healthy - enjoy it.
Mark
ps: And no damage to parts or stunting of growth.
Common snesne needed here though, if you have been masturbating constantly for a few hours then yes you CAN rub yourself sore - though nothing that won't self-repair if you "ease off" for a day or two
2007-06-16 06:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your getting some good advise here. The best is to use protection so the girl doesn't get pregnant. You don't been that at your age.
You can masturbate each other also if you can't get condoms, it's better then getting pregnant. Don't rush into anything that may be permanent.
2007-06-16 07:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do masturbate too much you could end up losing some hair and your hair will become thin.Trust me I start at 13 and know I'm 18 and its happened to me.your penis could also shrink about 2 inches but, thankfully I stopped before that could happen.
2007-06-16 11:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, masterbation is healthy but wait a while b4 you have sex
or use protection b/c your too young to have a baby believe me my first time was when i was 16 and i got pregnant!
2007-06-16 06:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Emerald Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i'm 42 and i masturbate anybody that says they don't masturbate are'nt tellin the truth . it's actually healthy to do so
2007-06-16 12:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til legal age. no, its safe.
2007-06-16 06:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋