My boyfriend recently told me his is "bisexual" and I am telling him to go to Jesus and pray for forgiveness. This abomination has to be treated. I am telling him thet Jesus is his only hope. Is there anything else I can tell him that will make him change his ways?
2007-06-15 19:48:32 · 20 answers · asked by Stella 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hi, god made him this way, nothing wrong with it
2007-06-15 19:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by pete m 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
What made you his/her keeper? Do you try and control all of your friends/family? It's a person's right to choose; not yours of condemnation or ridicule. No, I am not gay. Doesn't the bible also state the following: "He without sin cast the first stone".
He may need "help", but he has to ask for it. Why make him/her feel any less secure. It's ironic, as you both maybe seeing the same "therapist" in the future and not even knowing it. Homophobia sounds like a problem with you.
2007-06-15 19:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by CRACKerZPHD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that may no longer appropriate in case you do no longer atleast call him. i'm sorry which you may desire to do it. I hate doing it too yet you may desire to call him up and say which you would be able to no longer make it to be sure him the following day and which you particularly dont think of that your relationship is understanding. there will be a protracted pause then he will ask you some questions after which you would be able to easily communicate approximately how your relationship has replaced over the final year from something you enjoyed to a minimum of something you dont choose anymore. superb of luck. Be brave.
2016-10-09 07:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if this is a legit question, then my answer is either accept him as bi or go date someone else. He won't change through any means, not even religious; there is no such thing as an "ex-gay." Oh and btw, being an LGBT is NOT an abomination!
2007-06-15 19:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
By preaching to him like that you are likely to drive him away.
If you feel he is wrong it is time for you to find someone who's values match your own, who we are attracted to is something we have no control over and trust me after decades of praying for a change, the change does not come.
2007-06-15 19:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could do so much better than you. You are the abomination. Grow up.
2007-06-16 06:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by futuretopgun101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dear, I regret to have to inform you that persons who are engaged in deviant sexual practices are driven by an overwhelming compulsion to continue!
Even if JESUS HIMSELF suddenly descended from the sky, and personally commanded your boyfriend to cease all homosexual activity, he would STILL defy the Lord's wishes!
2007-06-15 21:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If Jesus is cute it's a lost cause so you better hope he is fat and smelly.
My suggestion is to lighten up and bring a hot guy home for him now and then. What is good for the goose is good for the gander....even the bible says so.
2007-06-15 19:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by universatile love 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not to be mean but if you can't deal with him being bi than you need to go find someone else because the problem and the one that needs to seek forgivness is you not him.
2007-06-15 20:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by bookluvr315 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change someone's sexual orientation. I can guarantee you if you try and do that, you will end up getting dumped. No one what's to be with someone who's trying to change them. He'll find someone who will accept him.
2007-06-15 19:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with him being bisexual. If you've got a problem with that, break up with him.
2007-06-15 19:52:42 · answer #11 · answered by ravenouspigeon 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋