When...
did you get married?
had your first official child?
How did you know you were ready for both stages? Bein a wife and mother? What things allowed you to know that?
2007-06-15 18:25:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I got married at 21 years of age and had my daughter by the time I was 24. I knew I was ready for marriage because I love my husband till no end and am willing to stick by him through the good and the bad. I don't think anyone is 100% fully prepared to be a mother. But if you feel that you are and want a baby and are in good enough circumstances to have one then go for it! Just keep in mind that once you have a baby, your life will be for that baby. They are a miracle and a joy but they become your life. It's a great experience to have and if you think you can do it then do it!
2007-06-15 18:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married 1990 had 1st child same year. Was 20. Didn't really think it through--just did it. Turned out great--although some parts of the road I took were pretty rough. Have 5 children--none were planned and all are official. Wouldn't change a thing. Hope this helps. Best wishes to you.
2007-06-16 01:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 24, had my first baby at 30.
Don't rush into marriage, enjoy your single life first. Have your kids when you are a little older. Trust me, you will make a better parent with more life experience.
I always wanted to be married and have kids, and after being married 5 years, we were just ready to be parents.
2007-06-16 01:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by steffers27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it in reverse.
I had my daughter with the "wrong" guy. Then met the man of my dreams.
I always thought I would be single with no kids....EVER and was really happy with that but something just clicks inside and you know that it is time.
Neither is something to rush into, believe me, I found out the hard way!
2007-06-16 01:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I haven't done either yet....
But I know that I am ready for both. You really have to think deeply about it, weigh out your pros and cons and then go from there.
There are benefits to being with someone and giving and receiving that love in return.
2007-06-16 01:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kelley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is an official child?
2007-06-16 01:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by RadTech - BAS RT(R)(ARRT) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married at 19
had a baby at 20
i wasnt ready but its exciting to see where life leads you
sometimes you just gotta follow your heart and have faith.. when you hold that baby in your arms you will have known you made the right choice
hope i helped
2007-06-16 01:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is an official child??
2007-06-16 01:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i din get married n don hv a child. Becoz i am still young..
2007-06-16 01:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Clover 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
life that is about all i can say life just kind of happens and we make the best of it
2007-06-16 01:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋