Ladies, how many children do you want to bear for your husband?

Question

As many as he wants?

Answer 1

We have three and we are both satisfied.

Answer 2

I had 3 children with my ex-husband. At the time, he vascillated between wanting and not wanting, so they were concieved during a window of wanting.

However, 12 years into the marriage the window for not wanting opened completely, and he refused to interact with them. I had never considered that once they were here we would have an option on caring or not caring for them.

Appraently, he did. He hasn't interacted with the two older girls in about 8 years, and he sees my son when the mood strikes, once or twice a month.

My advice would be for women to consider their incomes, determine how many children they can afford to raise alone, (time, money, energy) and have that many. That way, If he bails, as mine did, you can still provide for the kids. Especially since the court system seems to favor "Visitation", optional 4 days a month, unenforceable.

When we went for custody I was told Sole Custody was not awarded in NY state. I filed for sole custody, with an option for him to see the kids as often as he wanted. The judge made the statement that I was filing for sole custody and turned to their father and said, "Sir, what do you want?" and he said, "I don't care. They're her kids."

I have experienced that this is a common attitude, and one to be considered when bearing children. In 5 years of running a daycare I only had one child with married parents. Every single other child had a single mother raising them, most often with no participation on the sire's part.

So, take his desire for children into consideration, and base your decision on what you can do alone, because apparently we are experiencing a social trend where having a child does not make a father.

I work with one 23 year old who has a 4 year old he does not see, and does pay CS for. He has a 9 month old with another girl. He does not see this child, nor does he pay CS. He just had a baby with his current girlfriend, who cries all the time that there is no money, and he cannot keep a steady job. (I should say work-ED with). So, I assume that to this point he "wanted" 3 kids. But just to say he fathered them, not from a desire to raise his children.

Answer 3

As many as he will let me. Right now he says he wants no more. When we met he said he did not want children at all. Now he is a Fantastic Father of 2.

Answer 4

no longer of venture. To be honest, i detect the very seen gestation repulsive - and this is have been given no longer something to do with discomfort. i'm no longer even optimistic how i'm going to make it with the aid of my spouse's being pregnant. females who declare men could no longer look after it are letting their inferiority complicated do the talking. this is a style of opposite-chauvinism to be sure. females look after their maternal roles a techniques too jealously to allow any guy to attempt it if he ought to, besides. they are going to bypass on and on approximately how a guy could no longer do it, yet boost bloody hell some guy attempting to take something far off from females if he tried it. My opinion, of direction.

Answer 5

As many as he wants, if he wants 2 or 10, I'll accept it and as a woman that I am I'll take care of them.

Answer 6

Already had 4 children,and thats enough.

Answer 7

Yes, as many as he wants.

Answer 8

None. The world is overpopulated. I am not going to contribute to this problem.

Answer 9

I'm currently pregnant with my first child and my husband is really happy. He wants to become a daddy so badly and I wanted kids as well. 2 months to go and we will stick my ourselves for our new bundle of joy.

Answer 10

as many as he wants within reason

Answer 11

I guess as many as God allows me to have. I've had some and lost some. It's all up to god really