Here is a good one who believe in love.?

Question

We heard it before..
"Have faith she will come to you in time when your ready"
"There is plenty of fish in the sea"
"There is always someone out there for you"
"You will find your soul mate"

How can a person tell that to another person when you yourself
have no control over time or fate?
How can a person give a guarentee like that as if that person has total control of life to send a girl and a guy right to you?
Why not tell them "you will win the lottery..there are plenty of tickets in the sea.."
"have faith and your winning ticket will come"
"there is always someone winning ticket out there for you"
"you will find your soul ticket"

Heh some people perfer to back up love then to actually answer the question..heck it's okay. Love can blinds us even to the point of suicide when love is not there...

Answer 1

yea when pigs fly then i'll believe in love.

Answer 2

You're right of course. This is total crap.

But I think you need to understand that just because this extreme of love everlasting, soul-mate junk is not true, this doesn't necessarily mean love does not exist!

The truth is, there are a lot of people in this world who are compatible or potentially compatible with you, and have the capacity to love greatly. You may not have encountered these people, but you shouldn't discount their existance just because you haven't met them.

How else do you explain the couples who *do* find love? Just lucky? I think luck is as misleading as 'fate'. People choose to keep an open mind, an open heart, and take opportunities that are presented to them.

By the way....people do win the lottery all the time. And even though the chances of winning aren't great, at the same time, you'll never win anything if you don't at least get in the game!

Answer 3

It sounds like you've had your heart broke a time or two. Haven't we all? After my second failed marriage I gave up on love. I put my energy into learning to love myself. Proofing to myself I could be alone and didn't need a man to be happy. And sure enough, when I quite looking there he was. And I hate to say it but he IS my soul mate(I didn't believe in this before we met). It took him over a year to convince me. That was 13 years ago. I didn't know people could actually feel like this. It made me realize how wrong I was when I thought I was in love before. When it's right you WILL know. It will be easy. Love should not make you miserable.
So, please do have faith. In the mean time spend your energy getting to love yourself. This love, unfortunately does seem to be a struggle sometimes. It's the most rewarding though.

Answer 4

Well, first you have to understand the anatomy of love. Defined:: love has to do with how YOU feel about someone .. regardless of how they feel about you. The other person can only express they love you, meaning they have that 'I'd die without you in my life feeling', because it feels so good to be with you. You have no idea if this person 'thinks' they are in love with you or the real thing. We all take chances.

Second, it is easier to fall in love than to get someone to love you. You have no control over how someone feels about you, deep down. You cannot control another person. Real love for someone, creates it's own rules for commitmemt, dedication, and caring for the object of your affection. You, however, can feel this for someone and be sure, through what you are willing to do for and with them, that this is the real thing for you. THE TEST OF LOVE IS IF YOU WOULD WILLINGLY BE A FOOL FOR SOMEONE AND STILL COUNT IT ALL JOY! Sounds stupid but, THE BEST RELATIONSHIP IS ONE THAT THEY ARE A FOOL FOR EACH OTHER. No third party can penetrate that kind of love when it is mutual. No situation can not be accomplished with two of these heads put together. And very little material things are needed when you have the most important things in your life, a real love for and recieved mutually.

The negative side is that you have to TRUST that the other person knows themselves well enough, that they are telling the truth about loving you. Some people say it, when it is really a setteling for you, rather than be alone.....confuse love for great sex.....on the rebound and use to having someone in their life to give them love or attention...not so much into loving someone really. When you have a person who declairs love for the wrong reasons, you will have a break-up eventually, or a divorce, or CANDIDATES FOR CHEATERS SHOW!

SO, YES YOU CAN 'ENCOURAGE' A PERSON TO LOVE THEMSELVES, BE THE BEST THEY CAN BE INSIDE AND OUT, AND WAIT FOR SOMEONE TO REALLY LOVE THEM AND IF THEY HAPPEN TO REALLY LOVE THEM BACK, THEN THOSE FOOLS FOR EACH OTHER WILL HAVE A GREAT LIFE TOGETHER.

WE ALL DREAM OF IT!

Answer 5

I praise you for your interesting question.

I do believe in love. When a person finds a great love; he or she feels like they've won the lottery, but it isn't really winning the lottery unless he or she is ultimately picky for that perfect person. Finding love is more like finding two parts of a puzzle that fit. Lots of pieces in a puzzle fit 'cause they look like they do and they do fit! Right there is love. But are those two pieces ACTUALLY supposed to be together there? It's possible that they aren't and they have to be broken up to find that piece (which does fit too) that is meant to be. However most people are simply happy with whatever person that is able to make them feel complete; happy with the piece that fits them for the time being.

Answer 6

There is love out there. I found love in an odd place and with a odd person. We were married but now divorced but i know I still love him to death and that won't change. I am 24 years old and have a 4 year old was active army for 4 years now doing the Reserve thing until I get out of school. Keep your head up... Its out there!

Answer 7

I see your point but why so pessamistic? I used to be that person, the single one in my group of friends, and I never believed it would happen either. You find the love of your life when you find them, it can't be calculated or determined, it just does. I think the other problem is we, as women, like to "control" this aspect of our lives, so as you say we have no control, that is hard. Have fun being single, being with your friends and living it up. When he shows up, you will be ready.

Answer 8

I used to believe that i would never find the right person.
but i think i may have... i guess it's different for everyone.
trust me i was el presidente of the spinster club
and now i'm head over heels for the man of my dreams (and he loves me equally as well)

Answer 9

so you just broke up and you`re tired of the cliché people have been feeding you eh!

Answer 10

Nice!

I have worked hard to keep my status but IT always happens when you don't want IT to.


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