Are you happy most of the time or not? And what is your age, marital status, do you have any kids? Just curious if most people are struggling or are happy.
2007-06-15 15:25:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Terribly! I am happy because I am in control of my life and what I expose myself to.
I love me! Ain't it great?
2007-06-15 15:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ohmyheaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 39 year old female who is single, never married, and I have no children. I have dated guys that were not right for me. I now have a good and HONEST boyfriend. I would not take anyone if they cheated at all. One chance is all they got. I really was not happy fully. I do want to get married someday. I believe that honesty and communication is very important in every relationship so that you can grow. I know that there are guys who do not communicate well.
I am happy. I bought my first home a year ago and started dating my good friend in November. I have full faith in God and pray to him daily. It can be just a passing prayer for someone who I think needs help. I am happy to help others in that way if I can't help them in any other way.
I have struggled most of my life with bad past experiences. I have decided that even though bad things happen to people, I do not have to let the negativity of the situation get to me. I choose to look at things in a more positive light. I try to find someone positive in everything bad.
I am a stronger person for what has happened to me or not happened as I thought it should have. We all have choices in our lives and it is up to us to make the right choice.
I wish you peace and good health and prosperity.
2007-06-15 15:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that I am happy about 75% of the time.
I work hard to be that way. My life has been interesting but extraordinarily challenging. I have fought several long term depressions with sheer strength of character. I have survived the loss of 3 people that have meant the world to me. I have educated myself to the point that i am matching my closest peers. I have worked at love and myself and finally found a soul mate if he continues to treat me well.
I am 42, married, but previously divorced, and have one son. Life is not easy...and happiness can be fleeting...but i have a fine appreciation for those beautiful moments when I see them. Happiness is a moment not a state of being...even in my most spiritual moods.
2007-06-15 15:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy, single, never married, no kids, but have a couple of passsions, making computer software, and writing music. I have found that I am not a very good companion to people and end up hurting them unintentionally when my energy moves back to the business, so I've decided not to put anything through that again, at least until I am fully ready to need someone in my life enough to not stray back to the hours and hours of enjoyment of work.
2007-06-15 15:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by marketplacesoftware 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married with 3 kids, age 34. I am happy most of the time, but I think that no one would know that because I love to complain.
2007-06-15 15:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by dustyk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married. 26. I have a wonderful 3 yo daughter who is like a ray of sunshine, the most wonderful thing ever! but yet, not a day goes by that I don't visualize ways to kill myself. I know I have plenty to be thankful for and blah, blah, blah.. been through it over and over... medicated, unmedicated, counseled, rich, poor, been there, done that
Still feel sad. Still hoping I get nailed by a semi truck on the way to work or something to put me out of my misery.
Thats just my life as I know it and how I live.
2007-06-15 15:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by dtk@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not too happy with my life right now, I am 24 divorced with a 4 year old son and a 3 year old dog, I am working on my happiness though.
2007-06-15 15:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by marla b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm extremely happy and extremely blessed with my marriage. I'm 21 and my husband is 23, we have two kids. We married young (as u can see...) and we've had problems and im sure we will have more, but we both love eachother endlessly and we both are willing to do anything we have to do to keep our marriage together. we communicate well, trust eachother, and we always do things for the eachother just to show how much we appreiciate one another. we stand by eachother on everything when it comes to our kids and even when we have disagreements and arguments, we talk about it honestly rather than blaming eachother for our problems. i am so fortunate and i couldnt ask for more.
2007-06-15 15:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by ilovemysoldier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25, married for five years, no children, and yes I'm very happy. My husband and I have decided to wait to have children until we're both stable in our careers. I think each marriage is different, and being happy is a choice, not a state. I make a decision to be happy with my life every day, and if something in my life is making me unhappy, I either try to change it, and if not, accept it and be satisfied with what I have.
2007-06-15 15:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by hrgirl1701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is a choice, not a gift from some one else.
There is a time for every feeling so of course you are not going to be happy all of the time. Everyone is going through the trials and tribulations of life. No body has it made in the shade.
2007-06-15 20:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I am happy with my life. I`m 41, divorced and i have a 20 year old daughter who`s my pride. I am an ambitious, independent career woman and I love what I do.
2007-06-15 15:37:39 · answer #11 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋