We don't sleep in the same bed (snoring reasons) my husband goes camping every weekend and he says I am always mad. (I am not) I am frustrated but not mad. We have been married for 9 years. Is he trying to get away or away from me?
2007-06-15 14:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry, I think he's trying to get away from you.
You both need to talk it out and you will likely need some help. You need someone impartial to referee.
During this process, you both need to be extremely truthful and say whatever comes out of the discussion. The truth may be hurtful and it may actually break you further apart for a short time, but in the long run, you will both will be relieved to be free to express exactly how you feel. Likely, it will bring you closer together in the long run.
Unlike many other answers, I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that he's doing more than camping. It's doesn't mean he's cheating. It could be, but it's not obvious. He might be actually camping with buddies and enjoying time away.
Good luck, it'll be difficult for a little while, but the results are worth it.
2007-06-15 15:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective and find out where he is going before you do anything without proof. It truly sounds like he isn't going camping every week-end. This way you'll know for sure.
2007-06-15 21:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We've been married for 4 years and I can totally see that happening to us... I'm considering cutting my losses and running. Oh well.
Doesn't mean you should. Sounds like he is trying to get away. Better do something quick.
2007-06-15 21:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by turbopenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is trying to get away from you. I would be asking why doesn't he take you camping with him.
2007-06-15 21:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should go to couple counciling and try to work everything out. It seems like it would be worth it, you have been together for over 9 years.
2007-06-15 21:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you both sit and talk about what's troubling you..
And if you can arrange it..why not take some time to get away by yourselves..
It might help!
Bring something really sexy with you :))
2007-06-15 21:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over I'm afraid. Camping every weekend?
I'm thinking he's not in a tent, honey.
2007-06-15 21:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would recommend marriage counseling (or, if he refuses, individual counseling for yourself) to try to help determine what exactly is going on. I would not say that it is over, though.
2007-06-15 21:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by careergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Camping?...............I don`t think so! Have you completely stopped caring that you willingly believe the camping story.
2007-06-15 21:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you do for together time?
2007-06-15 21:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋