Well me and my GF decided to have sex for the first time today she has had sex before but it was my first time. anyway after about 10 seconds or less of intercourse she started to bleed and alot. she told me her periods are iregular but this was bad i rushed her to a near by clinic adn they said she will be fine but then her sister called me later to say that my gf was in hospital. PLease can sone one tell me tha she will be ok i got to talk to her and she saysshe is in pain and there is nothing i can do please let me know she will be ok and if it was me let me know so i can kick my self and ry my best to help her get better...
2007-06-15 14:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by kyle_is_back82 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Thanks to you all i am a bit worried about the technology i live on a small caribbean island i mean we are not full backward banging sticks on our heads but we dont have everything but we do have a medical univesity..... anyway thanks to everyone except websterjdjr his advise i kind of ignored cause i could tell it was ignorant. and my best friend said it could have been a muscle too but she should be okay after treatment and a good weeks rest. and i will be up in the hospital first thing tommorow with candy,flowers(roses) and a teddy bear.(altho she will get mad at me for spending so much money on her lol)
2007-06-15 14:41:45 · update #1
That doesn't sound sex related unless things were really rough... If she gets irregular periods and heavy periods she's probably having fibroids which normally aren't anything to worry about... I wouldn't get worked up over it. Let her get her rest and go see an obgyn and see what may have caused that type of reaction....Good luck and maybe get her some flowers/teddy bear...
2007-06-15 14:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up about it.
The technology these days is really good so they'll make your girlfriend better in no time at all (there have been cases where far worse hemorrhaging has happened). And I don't think it's your fault. Unless you two were going too fast to think about what happened or something. Maybe something just happened to her body... if she's had sex before than she should be used to it and you and her having intercourse wouldn't have caused her to bleed that bad.
Why don't you ask her doctor what happened.
Send her lots of candy and flowers, etc... to make her feel better though 'cuz if she's in a lot of pain... that's no walk in the park there :)
2007-06-15 14:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't a thing you can do at the moment =ask the sister what went wrong and tell her you will help in anyway to make things better =send the g/f/ some flowers and a forgive me card
2007-06-15 14:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have no idea whats going on with your girlfriend but when i first had sex with my boyfriend it hurt so unbelievably bad and i bled a lot too ...i didnt go to the hospital or anything but he literally tore my open unfortunatly i was sore for like a week and there was a cut so maybe whats what happened to her ...only maybe she was righter or you were bigger and it was a lot worse ...soo good luck i hope shes okay
2007-06-15 14:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by l3londie533 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see waiting till marriage helps but you could not wait, now a host of probs come up...did ya rape her? did ya know what ya was doing, was ya needing to be the man> well she might be playing you, after all she had sex with ye, and she know she has periods that irregular and peeps dat had sex have ooodball periods sdo that tells me right there she is playing you .SHE may be be playing you IS she playing you? wahy do you put yerself in that position? you need to be so up in the hospital right now and trying to see if a nizzle is playing you or if you have really hurt her NOW having said all that i would say are you outta yer fluggining ming? see what happens? I wis everbody on this here net can se what turns out whetehr you is being playyed or that you have a monster thing that can pump 3 times for 10 mins and ruptutre a hole that can let a 10 pound baby out off if nessesary.. man I get mad whren kids try to be parents.. dont the internet yer parent and anybody else ever teach you anything? man
2007-06-15 14:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
I think she will be good don't worry you didn't harm her but it will be nice of if you send her some red roses
2007-06-15 14:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by ayz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋