This wouldnt be so bad if i wasnt only a kid. My mother passed away when i was 12, one of my uncles are dying, my family moved across the state, and im pretty much in a country area with no neighbors except old people.
ive got answers for questions like this from other websites, only people didnt care. a lot of the ime,people i know dont even seem to care.
2007-06-15 14:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Kazilla 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It really will be ok. You're in a tough situation right now, but you will come through it a stronger person.
2007-06-15 14:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Meg M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is going to work out alright, just give it some. I'm sorry for the loss of your Mom. I know that it has been very tough for you and your family and now you are worried about your Uncle. Times like this are never easy and are actually the toughest times in our lives. Change is inevitable throughout our lives, but when it all happens at once it is even harder to handle. While living in the country may not be where you would choose to live, try to make the best of it while you are there. It won't be too long until you are old enough to be out on your own and then you can choose where you want to live. Just hang in there and keep your eye and your mind on your future goals and dreams. Never give up and always have faith in yourself and your future. You have been through a rough time but it won't feel this way forever. It will get better!
2007-06-15 14:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 10:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run you have a lot going for you. 1.You are young, you have an entire lifetime ahead of you. 2. You are living in a country area - you might feel lonelly there at the moment but I would much rather be in the country than the city. 3. You will make friends in your new area in time. 4. If things are bad, hang in, because with time things always change. 5. You sound pretty mature and intelligent - remember that your fate and future is in your own hands. You can make a choice to feel sorry for yourself, and do nothing, dont make any effort, just go with the flow, or you can make a choice to set yourself goals, and work hard towards them.
2007-06-15 14:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does seem that so far your life is pretty bad but i can tell you two things 1. When you ever start to feel sad or down in the dumps and feel like nothing good is gonna happen just think about all the good times you had 2. God works in strange ways , everything happens for a reason and everything will work out. So follow your heart and use your head dont worry be happy.
2007-06-15 14:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it'll turn out okay if you're open to the idea that it might. that's not to say this'll happen right away but give it some time. find things you like there and things you can do, maybe someone else will move in in the area who you can relate to more? I'm sorry about your mom and your uncle, I'm sure that was tough and i'm not trying to sound rude but myself as well as a lot of other people never had the best family situations (or situations in general) so you're not alone.....
just give it a chance. you're living with your dad then? I'm sure he's trying to do the best he can for you.
2007-06-15 14:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom and the pain you are going through. I know the world must seem pretty bleak at times. Still, hold on to hope and, if you have got it, your faith. Talk with your Dad or another family member about how you are feeling. Try to get connected with a group or organization in the closest town so you can make some new friends. And, PLEASE, be careful with who you meet and talk to online. You are in a very vulnerable place right now and (unfortunately) there are plenty of people who would want to take advantage of that.
Things will get better, just take it one day at a time and stay strong. My prayers are with you -
2007-06-15 14:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by careergirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is really too bad. Are there any clubs or stuff you can do to volunteer...in town? Or join a sports team. I know moving can be really hard...i have done it a few times...and that first couple of months are soo hard....so i completely understand. Maybe see if one the older neighbors have any grandkids that you can hang out with during the summer. Just find something that you enjoy and everything will fall into place. Losing loved ones can be really hard....but try and remember the good times....dont cry because they are gone...smile because you have their memories...good luck and keep your chin up!
2007-06-15 14:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anna J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. It sucks when you can't control what's happening. I totally understand. You'll meet some kids at school and that can help you take your mind off what's happening. Right now just try to see your uncle as much as you can. And remember, you will have so many more experiences and be so much more intelligent, strong, and mature because of your life experiences. Never ever give up.
God Bless ♥
2007-06-15 14:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't all that bad!! instead of feeling sorry for ur-self, get up and start meeting people, don't wait for them to come to you. Old people are alot of fun to be around cuz they have already been through just about everything..be helpful towards them. Everything that lives, must die, it's just apart of life, unless you have God in your life, not only will things seem to be tuff on you but they will be. So, go out and have some fun, clean fun, hang out with others, enjoy life!!! It's not that noone cares, it just that everyone deals with things in there own way.
get into ur fav. sports..ect..i'm sure there is something for you to do..GoodLuck!!
2007-06-15 14:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww im sorry :( that seems tough. my mom died too and we're also moving far away, what a coincidence, and that makes everything so much harder. i undertand how you feel. just try to find some new friends like im gonna try to do and everything will be fine. talk to ur dad about how u feel about everything. i think its really important to have someone u can talk to about anything. I'm sorry about everythingur going through and i hope everything turns out ok
2007-06-15 14:06:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋