what means more to you?

Question

family, boyfriend, or friends and why? its just a question i need to think about, any advice is appreciated!

Answer 1

all mean the same 2 me. they each have qualities which makes me love them all the same. the only "person" i love more is jesus

Answer 2

Friends should be last on your list, but when you get older and you find the right guy, your boyfriend should become part of your family. Which is the first step insto getting married. My family will always come first before anyone. My children, My husband, My mother and father and brother and so on. But no friend could ever replace my reletive.

Just remember when you chose someone over your family, you are burning a huge bridge in life. Your family is supposed to be the people you can fall back on no matter what! Friends will come and go through life anyhow. Especially once you get into your later 20's you will notice that those people are as important, or aren't as great as you once thought. But your Mom will always be your Mom and your Dad will always be your Dad. You cant change that. It's not to say you can't have friends... but family is definately more important. And if you are younger, your boyfriend isn't even as important as your friends.

SO in conclusion..
Dont give up family for friends
And dont give up friends for boyfriends.

Good Luck In Life!

Answer 3

Family.

Answer 4

I'm much older than you, and my kids are all grown and gone, but I'll give you my answer ... I'd choose my husband over ANYTHING ELSE, He'd do the same with me. We LOVE EACH OTHER TOTALLY, rich or poor, healthy or unhealthy. No matter how old you are now, the thing that I think you need to 'think about most' is where you will be when you are 'old' (55 and up) if you continue down the path you are on now ... but if you are as 'blessed' as I am, you may make some 'wrong decisions' and know in the end that they were 'right' after all, because you have a relationship like my husband and I have with each other. That's one reason I know 'he's the best man in the world for me' ... and I hope you 'feel the same' when you are my age.

Answer 5

I would say that family comes first always no matter what the situation. For example they have an opinion about everything but it doesn't mean you have to take their advice just consider it. Learning is the beautiful thing about living. About friends, I will tell you what my grandmother told me, if you have 1 true friend through your entire life you are rich. ( And that includes boyfriends with or without benefits)

Answer 6

Family is important, because if you and your friends have a fight or your boyfriend breaks up with you, the only people that can help you is your family. For me it's Family vs. Friends, because I have friends I consider family and very few family members I can call friends.

Answer 7

It depends on what I'm doing.

If I'm one of two romance-inclined people in a car parked atop Black Mountain to watch the sunset turn glacier ice pink go figure.

If I'm one of an exploration party 18 hours from our nearest known cave exit the bonding between participants defeating underground obstacles is coupled to our mandate that we go no faster than the slowest person present; yes, the dominant ethic is we leave no one behind so go figure.

Emotional attachments are fine but sometimes a collective
value is needed. Explorers of the heart need a larger honor.
What would you die for: Bloodline or your Nation?

Freedom isn't free. Go earn some.

Answer 8

Obviously, family!!! friends may come and go and boyfriends, forget it!! but your family has supported you since you were a baby and will continue to do so. Your family loves you in an unselfish way, that's why, give more importance to your family than anyone else.

Answer 9

I think its friends.. if you think about it family could be friends.. even its BEST to be friends with the members of your family.. Good friends are always behind you and also watching your back.. giving when you need without asking.. boyfriends/girlfriends.. well i dont think i must say much.. just see the word :) boyFRIEND/girlFRIEND.. good luck :)

Answer 10

First - family, second - friends, boyfriends - third. Family - don't need explanation. Friends over boyfriends because boyfriends may be just for sex, and friends will be friends always.

Answer 11

my family means a lot to me and i love them so much..but if i had a boy friend he would also mean the world to me because having a boy friend is like the key to my heart..i just need somebody to love! So i would say family or boyfriend..