my husband is a great size but he can't go for that long what's wrong
2007-06-15 11:52:41 · 19 answers · asked by Nice isn't it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is getting quick blood flow and its causing him to finish a little too soon. (plus side he has great circulation) bad for you though. SO here is what you do, you have to ristrict the blood blow, buy what they call a cock ring, and place it on him and that will ristrict the flow so quick.
2007-06-15 12:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's easy..he is so worked up, anxious and ALLLLLLL into you that he looses control...best thing to do is you need to get worked up first for about 30 -60minutes(if u know what i mean) and leave him alone then dive in. Another thing is to try more than once in the day, the second time he will be a little less anxious.
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and talk to him not us...let him know how to make you feel.
Thirdly he should do some "kegel" exercises on a regular basis and this will help him gain more control over his "exicitement".If you dont know what kegels are, just do a search.in a month or 2 he will be better.
Men are pretty defensive about this so he maybe a lil upset when you mention this, (and he probably already is,) if you are not getting you chance to reach your "high" and jus faking it. And he will have way too much pride to ask advice from other males.
Chances are he too is on the internet looking for answers and already knows you are not totally satisfied.
but I was like that too but i had to teach "lil jimmy" who is the man! hahaha :)
Be relaxed about the whole situation and it will work out.
2007-06-15 19:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gently suggest that he oxygenate himself first by going for a stimulating run (great for getting the ol' blood pumping) or doing a series of pushups before attempting any sexual encounters. He could also try masturbating in the shower beforehand (no pun intended) because the first male orgasm is largely "mechanical" anyway. He would also likely gain greater stamina attempting positions in which he is standing up first. Variety is the spice of life. Good luck to you both.
2007-06-15 19:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bigger isn't always better.
He might have personal hang ups?
Talk to him. Maybe slow things way way way down.
Talk a bit, switch things up. Don't go at it like a jackrabbit.
lol trying to tell you with out going into detail is tuff, but you know... kids read this stuff too... sooo I have to be nice.
Maybe jump on top and stop. Sit there and talk to him. Let him become relaxed. Switch around so your back is to his face and watch tv.. mess around....play around...
Grab a tube of slick lube or maybe add a condom or two so he doesn't get that sooo good of a feeling to fast.
2007-06-15 18:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is he lasting? Average guy goes only go 5 to 10 minutes max. Most women don't go more that 8 to 12 minutes before it becomes uncomfortable. Easy solution is to have him clean out the "pipes" before you get into it. You may have to have him do it a couple of times if necessary. Or he could help you get to close before you get into it that way you have better chance of getting yours to.
2007-06-15 19:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sal1022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice
2007-06-15 18:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chalie M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel that good to him. here a trick, right before you husband is about to release have him pull out intill the feeling goes away. keep repeating this everytime he is about to release. after about 2 - 3 times of doing this he'll be able to last for at least a half hour straight no stops. one thing to remember when he pulls out do not touch the penis at all, dont even breathe on it as any kind of stimulation will provoke a release at that point and tell him not to "push" after he pulls out. he'll know what i mean by push.
2007-06-15 18:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by thechronic1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There're lots of good ideas already there..pulling out before he loses it is good,use that opportunity to change positions..a p-n-s ring is good but it's the same as him partially pulling out & putting pressure at the base of the p_n_s to slow circulation. Masturbating beforehand helps too,but do it for him,he'll appreciate it. Also, try tantric sex to change it up! There's little or no penetration so you get thoroughly pleased without him losing it too soon...usually, lol.
2007-06-15 19:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by madame_emperess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is using his nice sized "tool" elsewhere
maybe he needs Viagra ( make sure he gets his heart checked first)
maybe you make him too excited
I don't know but maybe it's a whole lot of other things, go see a dr. if it is unbearable. otherwise just appreciate that 5 minutes get him back up & appreciate it some more. lol
Much happiness to ya in life & love <3
2007-06-15 19:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Still*Perfect 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's time to spice things up a bit it's never too late to heat things up! Research and experiment, that's the best way to go!
2007-06-15 18:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Driene gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋