Don't get pregnant over the summer. Go to college then to University. I am 31 years old at a dead end job and it sucks. Good luck. And congrats.
2007-06-15 11:49:16
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answered by Sunfire_chick 1
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(ought to you upload the son's age while the stepfather entered the image?) that's totally uncertain that this might end amicably. you like your son. you like your husband. however the son to stepson transition is somewhat stressful on anybody. At 18, your son IS grown (does he have a job?). So is your husband. to initiate, you ALL might desire to end and take a seat and attempt to speak and bring your issues to mild. Be intense high quality. Be cordial. No yelling. Does anybody agree that magnificent is for the son to depart? if so, then tell the son that he has 3 months (set a date in September.. . that's been 18 years inspite of each and every thing!)), and which you need him to have his very own place via then. If he desires to stay NEGOTIATE some rules that he might or will possibly no longer abide via like getting a job, contributing to the abode, and exhibiting slightly greater admire (the time shrink remains in consequence). while the time shrink comes, basically tell him that this is time. provide him slightly funds, and tell him which you nonetheless love him, in spite of the undeniable fact that it's time to pass. If he desires yet another week or 2, that's as much as you. he's an grownup, and he's going to pass out,stay out all evening, etc. I used to teel my mom that i may be in, say via 4 a.m. (i became 18 approximately to pass to varsity), and if I observed that does no longer make it, i might call and say that i might abode lots later. She'd say ok and that must be it. It became some provide and take... you will get distinctive suggestion and solutions in this. some will lean in direction of the adjustment of the son to a stepdad. Others might lean in direction of the stepdad attempting tocontinual a wedge between you and your son, considering that he looks steerage your attitude in direction of your son. yet while your son is going, will he be greater desirable off and could you undertaking much less? benefit a husband and lose a son. Me? i might do each and every thing i ought to, attempt each and every thing i ought to, to maintain the two. suited subject might have the son shifting, yet no longer hating you continually. Sorry to be so blunt.
2016-12-08 10:25:07
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answered by ? 4
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Congrats!! Hope you've already put your plan for life after h.s. in motion; if not, take time to plot out your next step -- work? college? crash on your best friend's sofa if you're not doing either? :)
2007-06-15 11:53:27
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answered by M J 2
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Make sure you have fun before you jump into the whole college thing. Otherwise you'll regret it later.
2007-06-15 12:04:34
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answered by OCHiix3 2
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wow ur beatifull lol i guess go to college keep in school. no crazy parties and drinking help eatch other. rent a place
2007-06-15 11:51:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Amazing....considering you must have failed English grammar. "My best friend and I are graduating from high school in less than a week..."
2007-06-15 11:48:07
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answered by margarita 7
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keep up the good work towards school and stay best friends
2007-06-15 11:49:47
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answered by Anonymous
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don't let anyone let u down its ya day and congrats
2007-06-15 11:49:52
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answered by ? 3
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