pregnant!?! maybe?! spotting??brown discharge??

Question

I lost my virginity for the first time about 2 weeks ago. The first time, i bled like a little spot..(I ALSO HAD PROTECTED SEX) but there was one time where he took the condom off but wasnt going inside of me..we were just grinding (humping)..My period is due on the 23rd so i havent missed it. The last time we did it was like 3 days ago and it was like the 5th time and i bled like 3 quarter sizes..but the bleeding stopped after a few min. i have been having brown discharge non stop since the first time. Could i be spotting or be pregnant??
help!!

I NEED AS MANY ANSWERS AS I CAN GET PLEASE!!!!!!

Answer 1

Ok sweetheart, there's something you need to realize. We all know that you didnt lose your virginity 2 weeks ago because just about every question you ask on here is about your maybe being prego. Here's the bottom line-EVEN IF YOU USE A CONDOM THE WHOLE TIME, IF YOU HAVE SEX, YOU CAN BE PREGNANT. Let's think about this, and I'm not trying to be mean, I am just telling you the truth, and you keep saying that you need lots of answers, but there's no way to tell from dates and discharges and spotting if you are pregnant. You need to take a pregnancy test, either at home or even better, at a clinic, to tell if you are pregnant.
Ok, now let's look at what all this is doing to you. You seem to be very young, and while there's nothing wrong with sex, YOU HAVE TO BE READY. All you are doing is worrying and stressing about your being pregnant all the time. Is the sex really that good. Is it worth all of the stress and emotional craziness you are putting yourself through? Are you prepared to waste all of your adolescent years, STRESSING?!?!! You're supposed to be hanging out with friends, going out with your buddies, having fun, but is it possible to really let go and have a good time if you always have this pregnancy issue at the back of your mind? Enjoy this time of your life to the fullest, because trust me, once it is gone and you are in the real world and have to go to work everyday and pay bills and all that other stuff, you will miss these years, especially if you didn't enjoy them to their fullest extent.
Lastly, and probably the most important thing you should think about here, is what are you going to do if it turns out that you DO get pregnant. What are you going to do then? Is this boy going to stick around and help you raise a child??? Many young men who find themselves in this situation run, because they are not ready. If you are going to play, you have to be ready to accept all consequences of the game. Can you care for a child? Would you be able to give that child what they deserve? Financially and emotionally? Kids are a lot of work, and once you have one, they become #1, kiss your own wants, needs, and dreams goodbye, because you're no longer at the top of your list.
Please take these things into consideration. Too many people do not think about these things before it's too late. Enjoy what you have now, and if that means finding a boyfriend that doesnt' have to have sex with you for you to be his girlfriend, then that may be in your best interests!
Good luck, and I hope all works out for you.

Answer 2

usually after u loose ur virginty for a few weeks there may be some sort of spottin due to the tension of ur hem been broke etc but then u could also be pregnant but its very unlikely wait till after ur period comes and u al be able 2 find out

Answer 3

i dont mean to be rude, but we cant tell you if you are or arent.
obviously you could be pregnant beacause you did have sex.
take a test and go to the doctor.

Answer 4

Its probably from you loosing your virginity. You caused trauma to your body....its normal...but if you don't get your period, then you should worry.

Answer 5

that's normal after the first time you have sex.

Answer 6

no