I met her at my gym and been on a few dates.She seems nice and shes not a troll.But all my friends said there must be something wrong with her if shes that old with no children and never married.What would you guys think about dating someone like this?
2007-06-15 11:25:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have a male friend that is 37 years old. He has never been married and he doesn't have any kids. He has had several long-term relationships but none of them ended in marriage. I don't think there is anything wrong with him. He has his stuff together, he is not a loser, so I don't think you should jump to any conclusions on this woman. It is possible that this woman, much like my friend, just haven't found the one they want to commit to for life. I think it looks better on your new friend and my friend not to have several failed marriages in their past.
2007-06-15 11:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey: This women you have been dating just may be the perfect women. How many women do you know that are childless and have never been married? I bet not many. Here's another thing. Since she goes to the gym she is interested in the way she looks and wants to take care of herself. Not many women even go to the gym these days. Go to your local mall and you will see what I mean. These days women are very independant. She probably has been involved in her profession and is living life for herself. But now she wants to begin a relationship, and you happen to be that guy. You say she also is cute? What are you worried about? Go for it, you have nothing to lose. You know what is wrong with her? She hasn't found the man that she totally wants to give herself to.You don't have to worry about kids and/or ex husbands. If I were in your shoes I would be trying to win her heart. Take care.
2007-06-15 13:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with never having been married at 38! She has probably spent her time developing her career and making sure she is financially stable. She may also have taken some time to develop her interests and talents. In my opinion, this would make for a very interesting person who will probably have a lot to talk about. If she has romantic baggage, I am sure you'll know about it soon. Just take this time to get to know her and don't overthink things.
2007-06-15 11:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by naf23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she was never married and does not have kids means there is something wrong with her. You like her right so just make sure you see her for who she is. I bet any money that she is a strong independent woman. She did not settle for good she is looking for great. So with that I hope you also do not settle for good look for the best. You deserve it. Do not listen to your friends for they never meet her.
2007-06-15 11:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by matthew b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she has been doing all her life. If she has been working hard on her career, and she is successful. That's help explain it why she is still single and no children.
I don't think it is weird at all. There are a lot of good quality women out there mature, rich, single and available.
2007-06-15 11:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by judy06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be lots of reasons why she never married and has no kids. She could've been into her career, she could have just never met the right man and was wasting time with the wrong ones... you never know, just ask her, she'll probably tell you.
2007-06-15 11:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by c 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i don't think is something wrong with her... i just think she had no succes on love and maybe here comes somthing... about the kids stuf.. i think that you woud want some children to feel your family... but with her age there are very little probabilities on having one. if you want to insist on this, ask her: have you ever thpougt on having children? and the you will know what to do
2007-06-15 11:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong, if ur friends think you are dating a troll then be a step ahead and push them out of the way. No relationships are wrong. Relationships that you have should be the way you want it! :)
2007-06-15 11:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by mizzoudude816 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know her better than your friends or anybody on this answer board. If you like her then don't worry about it. If there is something wrong with her you'll eventually find out.
2007-06-15 11:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Doug B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be weird? She didn't jump on the wedding bandwagon like everyone else.
It's normal. She just knows how to be independent and not depend on someone else for happiness.
2007-06-15 11:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋