5 minutes ago, a co-worker of mine was sitting across from me and she is really sexy! She was wearing one of those skirt that went up slightly past her knees.
Now, I didn't really men to look between her legs I just so happen to turn my head and kind of got stuck looking at her g-string.
But, for some ungodly reason she looked at the same time as I turned and spent 2 seconds looking between her crotch(which felt an eternal), then she looked at her crotch and looked at me. Then she crossed her legs.
I wasn't intentionally trying to peep. She is very attractive and now I am feeling stupid for something I wasn't really trying to do. Am I in trouble? Will I get fired? Sued? Anything? DAMN!!! It's Friday too and i will be thinking of this!
Please give me a realistic and sane advice.
2007-06-15 11:11:39 · 27 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She was wearing high heels too, damn! Her g-string is black and shear. Why am I describing this?
2007-06-15 11:13:28 · update #1
Is this the woman from the toilet? I think it's destiny!
2007-06-15 11:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You know what? Sometimes embarrassing things happen to us and there is not a darn thing we can do but shrug our shoulders and move on. So long as you were not deliberately trying to get that look then don't worry about it. If she didn't realize her skirt had shifted then I bet she's as embarrassed as you are now that she realizes what happened. If she doesn't make anything out of it, I wouldn't either. After all, she's the one who wore the skirt at work. It's kind of like we guys forgetting to zip our fly. We don't mean to flash anyone but if it happens, we blush and then forget about it. Do the same here and enjoy your week end.
Just saw your 'additional comment.' Now you're just padding.
2007-06-15 18:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. She was asking for it . If she didn't say anything to you about it then she probably got off to you looking. If you didn't have to stoop down to look and it was just from her sitting then she should have been more careful. Those things happen and it's mother nature to LOOK at a sexy woman. Why not. If this is really bothering you then try not to make any kind of contact with her for a few days.
2007-06-15 18:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by TLHGSS6 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
listen man i know what Ur going through. i work in a warehouse with a bunch of guys so when a women walks past all the guys cluck like chickens.
As long as u don't make it a big deal she wont. and act like a gentlemen around the work place especially in front of her. OK
relax man. think about making money.
2007-06-15 18:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how sensitive she is, you may be in some trouble!
This would fall under the "sexual harrassment" company policy. The chances of you getting fired are slim (feel better?)
Most likely scenario, you get called in to your manager's office and have to explain your actions. Most likely punishment would be a reprimand/written warning.
As you explain it, this was an innocent mistake but you DO sound like you enjoyed it a little too much to pass for "glancing". We live in a society that takes this SERIOUSLY! Unfortunately, her opinion/comfort will probably be put ahead of yours (for legal reasons).
When you go back Monday, if your coworker seems to still be resenting/embarassed, you may want to apologize. If you aren't sure if she is mad, don't say anything! You don't want to give her any ideas/ammunition to use against you.
2007-06-15 18:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
well dirty boy. that's normal for you to think she is sexy and about looking in between her legs well sometimes that does accidentally happen you just happen to turn and their it was in all its glory her g-string. if you feel comfortable go talk to her and tell her that it was an accident even though it might have not been... say that your sorry. but deep in you, you know what you really feel..so go cover your ***..and maybe you should make it up to her.
2007-06-15 18:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by gelica_11 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it happens. I'm a girl and I've done the same thing. It's natural for one's eyes to wander. Just pretend like nothing happened. Don't get too chummy with her now. She may take it the wrong way. I would avoid her for awhile. I'm sure it'll be forgotten.
2007-06-15 19:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only way you will be caught is if she informs a superior or tells someone who might... "spill the beans" i would go up to her and say "sorry, i dont know what you were thinking back there but it was purely accidental."
2007-06-15 18:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by thefletch55 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should feel indecent Not stupid. I wonder how much remorse you would feel if you hadn't gotten caught. She probably went home and took a shower because she felt dirty after you staring between her legs. Try to understand how you could have made her feel and stop dwelling on yourself. That is awful. Unfortunately she will probably just be more careful around you. And you will walk away unscathed.
2007-06-15 18:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by anita 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Just let it go...she will too.
I'm probably going to catch he** for this but...if a woman is wearing a short skirt...she outta keep her legs closed!!! I mean come on...how is it sexual harrassment if she is sitting there showing her business to the world!
Remember that when a guy is showing off his crack people look...and it is not sexual harrassment...
2007-06-15 18:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
just forget about it. dam. your not gonna get sued or anything. its just some peeping. its not going to kill anyone. lol.
she'll probably forget in a matter of days, or she might have even enjoyed the attention.
2007-06-15 18:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋