Choosing NOT to forgive someone will only hurt you, It's like a cancer inside that will have a negative affect on all relationships in your life. I know many tragic things have happened to many people. But forgiveness will bring such a deep freedom inside. It will bring closure. It is always better to LOVE and not hate. Forgive and don't allow the one who hurt you to continue to hurt you by keeping you in unforgiveness.
2007-06-15 10:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by waawaazzzzat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My brother was killed a couple of months ago, and the interesting thing is that I am not angry or mad at the people that did it, actually I have forgiven them. The thing that hurt the most is that he is gone and that's enough, having a grudge and anger would only make me more sad and actually make me sick.So i 100% agree with you. Nicely said.
2007-06-15 10:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by KG 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe that a few people in my life have done things that do not deserve forgiveness. I am a Christian and I know that I am suppose to, but for these things I will leave that to God.
2007-06-15 17:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true words of wisdom to live by..I wish I could forgive easily but I just keep thinking about the hurt. With prayer, I should change!
2007-06-15 17:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by amasmomma05 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right forgiving someone frees you from the pain hate brings to your soul.
2007-06-15 17:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Yuko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, buddy.
We've been happily married for almost 37 yrs., and without a sense of sympathy and forgiveness, we'd have never made it this far.
2007-06-15 19:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to see there are people with some common sense here. I agree totally.
2007-06-15 17:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree completely. Some people don't deserve to be forgiven and it need not cause the person they wronged any issue, unless they allow it to.
Did you come here to ask a question or to preach to us?
2007-06-15 17:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are certain things that are unforgivable acts. And although it is better to Love it is not always possible when those acts are commited.
2007-06-15 17:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by vieveia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forgive but do not forget.
2007-06-15 18:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG did you read THE FOUR AGREEMENTS ?
It's a great book about just what you said and more. If you haven't you might wanna read it.
2007-06-15 17:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Still*Perfect 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋