2007-06-15 10:17:53 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no rush to get married as soon as you turn 18...How about going to college...graduating...getting a real job...and then getting married
2007-06-15 10:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were to enter a college from which you will not graduate in 50 years but with the option of carefully choosing the college, would you be in a hurry?. Marriage is far more than just a good wedding. Don't be in a hurry; I am sure you hope to be in the marriage for a lifetime (but more importantly happily too), So do what you need to do now, maybe some more education, good job some career etc, and then the marriage can follow. Note that these things can affect your life and those around you in ways you cannot imagine now.
2007-06-15 10:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kenedy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it so important for you two to be married ?
is it more important for him ?
is it more important for you ?
what about graduating high school and doing something for yourself first like getting a college degree ?
Then you two can actually afford an apartment or a house after graduation together and make plans on spending your life together..
Whats the rush ? Unless you really want to have a husband who flips burgers for a living or serves people at a restaurant or bags groceries for a living...same applies to you of course i suggest you two wait...till after college..
you two will be established and have a degree and take care of yourself as well as each other..and possibly are able to actually put money away for a baby..if you two decide on wanting a family...
if its meant to be you two will be each others forever..there's no rush.. 17 and 19 is way too young to be married..you haven't lived life yet.. take your time..
2007-06-15 11:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get married unless you really think that you want to have all the responsibility that come with it. I think that you should wait in till you have been in the relationship for six years and have live with that person. For example I date a guy that was great when we started going out, then I moved in with and he was a completed a** to me. You can really think that after a year or a couple of years that you really know that person. I believe if you can stand that person after a couple of year of living with that person then you can go for it. Personally I think that 17 is to young. I think that 18 is the legal age.
2007-06-15 10:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you do not know the legal age to get married makes me think that you are not ready. If you truly love each other, then what is the rush? Would you rather break up down the road or get divorced? Think about it. Marriage is not a game.
2007-06-15 12:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by JoliCart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In England you can get married at 16 with your parents permission or 18 without. Also there are certain countries that have no limit, or Russia which is 14!
2007-06-15 10:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Clapflam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally you can't have a boyfriend who is 19 and you under age. Against the law so dont spread it because it can and will give him legal problems.
These kind of cases will surely prosecute your boyfriend even after your 50 years old. it's also a sure prosecution. Do yourself a favor and don't say anything anymore.
2007-06-15 10:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cerealkiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18.... Youd make a mistake though. You may be in love, but you definately are not finish developing emotionally. You will never listen to anyone when they tell you this but it is true. TRUST ME. When you are this young, you can love some one, one day and fall for another the next. Marriage really should wait untill your early 30's. I think that is when people are finally grown up enough to function correctly with some one that close to them.
2007-06-15 10:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could but you should wait. Set a wedding date for one year away. Give your self a while to get to know each other. Allow your families to get to know each other too. If you really love each other there should be no problem. Plan a wedding and save money for it. Don't start your life together deep in debt
You can do it.
Good Luck
2007-06-15 10:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check with the AG office and of course your parents since your a minor. you may not even be able to date in your state since your under 18 and he's over 18.be careful then sorry.
Vin
2007-06-15 10:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋