2007-06-15 09:47:57 · 23 answers · asked by samara j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont want to lose him, and i he does not know if he wants to stay or go
2007-06-15 09:52:19 · update #1
Maybe you should speak to a professional, he may need meds...
2007-06-17 18:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-16 03:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually that means he is happier around someone else. You need to find out what is going on. A guy does not just say I am unhappy without something waiting around the corner. I think he needs to grow up. If you love someone, then how can you be that unhappy. I love my husband, and my daughter and I am happy. That is like saying I love this car, but I don't want to drive it. He makes no damn since. Tell him he's a day late and a dollar short. He needs to be a man, and at-least own up to what is the real reason behind all this. God bless you and your kids.Sorry you are going through all this. Especially when you are pregnant.
2007-06-15 18:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Heather D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For many guys, the weighty responsibility of married life doesn't really hit them until a baby (or two or three or MORE) enters the picture. It may not seem like it's all that real when it's just you and him living together, but once pregnancy happens reality sets in, and for some guys, it BITES.
The best thing to do is to get counseling. If this isn't what's bothering him, you need to find out what is. Take it from someone who knows from personal experience - unhappy men do NOT make great (or even good) fathers. Finding out now where his head is at and if he can be there for you somewhere down the road or not is going to save you both from a world of hurt.
2007-06-15 17:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by dreamchaser8860 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys need to spend sometime together. Make arrangements for the kiddos to go somewhere over night. Maybe a trusted friend can watch them in return you watch her kids for her. Have a Date Night. Or you can stay at home rent a movie that he likes and fix him a meal that he would enjoy just pamper him. Men need to be pampered also no matter how manly they are.
2007-06-15 17:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what is making him unhappy and see if it is something you both can work on. Do it for the Children if not anybody else.
Is this something that can be changed or is it his attraction to you? Dont feel like you have to change completely because he will have to work on it the same as you do..
2007-06-15 16:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how ironic?! sounds just like me a few months ago. i've had the baby since then. now, we're going thru a divorce (which he filed). the reason? he's got someone in his life now, someone who he's been cheating on me with-even after i found out!
now i'm not saying your hubby is necessarily cheating on you, but you may want to look into it.
why is it that guys are suddenly unhappy when we're pregnant again? go figure...
2007-06-15 18:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he isn't happy.
Read "The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands" so you'll understand what a man needs to be happy to make you happy.
2007-06-15 16:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Marriage counseling is probably your best option. If he will not go with you then go by yourself. It will help you deal with everything. It takes two people to make a marriage work, if he isn't willing to work at it then the marriage is already over.
2007-06-15 16:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him and find out why he isn't happy. If you have kids and he loves you, then he should be willing to at least try to work things out, especially if you are preggers.
2007-06-15 16:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by mshavik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply, he probably feels like I do. I do love my wife for the great mother she is to my kids. But, I'm unhappy also.
Unhappy because there is no intimacy, sex and we don't sleep together. We've talked about it and she does nothing to improve it.
2007-06-15 17:02:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋