I find it really disturbing to see my kitchen cupboards not as neat as they should be and feel guilty I have skipped my task as a decent house wife. My husband keeps pointing this out to me as well. Just last week I have broken my leg and can't walk for several weeks. How can I catch up with spring cleaning? My husband has stated not to pay me any pocket money until the job is done to his satisfaction.
2007-06-15 07:10:39 · 7 answers · asked by Mariska 5 in Home & Garden ➔ Cleaning & Laundry
Maybe your husband should do it!! That would be nice since you have a broken leg...NO?
2007-06-15 07:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by uvbeenframed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if a man's home is his castle then let him clean it and show you what "his satisfaction" really is.... I'm a SAHM and sometimes I can get the house in tip top shape and other days I'm playing with the kids and I slack.. I don't get paid either... If you want to catch up on your spring cleaning that's fine make yourself a to do list for each room and get a little bit accomplished at a time... Do the work because it needs to be done and you'll feel good when it's done and not because of your husband he's an ***
2007-06-15 14:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that domestic slavery still exists. Has he completed all of his tasks? It really sounds like the two of you need some counseling. My wife and I have reversed roles. She likes doing work on the vehicles and I do all the cooking. There is no "pay" for any of the jobs done.
2007-06-15 14:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Piss on him, if he wants it done, he can do it himself. If it bothers him that bad, he will do it. I think men should share in the housework too, after all they live in the house too.(And its not like they are so neat peoples either...lol). Its not gonna kill a man to clean once in a while. You need to take time to heal for your leg. And then you can get back to your regular routine.
2007-06-15 14:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.
Get out of that house and move in with a friend or family.
Start saving for a huge dirty divorce.
Stop being a doormat.
2007-06-15 18:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cammie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the kids earn their keep and do some cleaning.
2007-06-15 19:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you married your husband you promised to "love honour and obey" seems to me you need to pay a bit more attention to the obeying part.
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2007-06-15 14:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋