~~** When i realise my faults, mistakes or sins i repent truly & heartily but i don't, i mean i just can't forgive myself.
I can forgive anybody else but i never forgive myself.
I feel responsible for all my wrong doings & think that i don't deserve forgiveness no matter how little my fault maybe.**~~
All these years i have never forgiven my self for my faults.
~~**Spread smiles**~~ :-)
2007-06-15 05:25:20 · 31 answers · asked by ♪♥*B.B.K*♥♪ 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
*Hey !!!! do not ''carry'' the extra burden of unforgiveness !!!
U have far to go, travel light !!!!
Hope this helps ; cause it has helped me too!!!!!!!
2007-06-20 17:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by ๏๓ รђคภtเ, รђคภtเ รђคภtเ ....... ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can find the strength and courage to forgive others, then you can find it to forgive yourself. It's important to be able to let go of some of these things that you regret. You can't go backwards and change them, so learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself knowing that you will never make those mistakes again. It's the only way you can move on with your life. It's hard to forgive yourself for some things, I totally understand that. I don't think it's easy to forgive yourself or anyone else, but I have learned that it's necessary to be able to move forward in your life. Otherwise those thoughts and regrets hold you back and take away from your self esteem and self confidence. Keep working at it. You deserve forgiveness! Look forward not backwards!
2007-06-15 05:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is common to do mistakes in all the age group. If you repent for that you are excused by the GOD. If U think that U can not excuse U , who else will excuse, please ask this question to yourself. What mistake or sin you committed nobody knows and you feel that U are responsible for that OK. Let U forget all these things , past is past. Now U are a new Girl in this world. From today onwards U are going to start a new Life, where U are not going to commit any mistake or sin . All the best Yours VRVRAO
2007-06-21 02:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl!
u should not think like that!
learn to forgive ur self even it's the hardest thing 2 do.
if u don't, u will never live in comfortable way cause u never forgive ur self even it's just a small matter.
we both had some common, but i tried hardly 2 forgive myself so my life at the end will be peacefully and happily.
2007-06-15 16:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Asha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's great that you do!
Personally for me it depends on the gratutude of the situation. I'm very easy-going and therefor rarely take anything seriousely so most things I forget.
A few things though I could never forgive myself for, because I have yet to find something to justify my actions. I may have not known better but still I wonder how was I so ignorant when I've done unmentionable things. =]
2007-06-15 05:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you accept your faults and mistakes or sins, the God himself forgive you or anybody. What the hell are you, after all a human. Do not be carried away with your wrongful thinking's and concepts.
2007-06-18 22:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by ky d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that I can forgive others much easier then I can forgive myself. I judge my taught and actions and If I make a mistake I admit my fault.
2007-06-23 05:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by bornfree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes me a while to forgive my self for my sins or my mistakes. But I beleive time is a great healer, and in time my sins will be forgotten. I try to make sure I learn from all my mistakes though.
2007-06-15 05:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mike T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving other is a heavenly act done by humans....Its good that you can forgive others but its equally bad to not forgive our ownself
Its specially for you....even I regret for my mistakes and blame myself but I somehow manage to recover...Please dont always blame yourself, if you can forgive others then you can also forgive yourself coz if you cannot forgive yourself then how would you be able to expect others to forgive you when you do anything wrong to them
2007-06-15 06:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a book called 'The God who won't let go' by Dean Merrill.
This book is filled with scripture.
I have over 50 books dealing with, shame, guilt, and unforgiveness.
Most books talk aboiut forgiving others.
This book talks specifically aobut forgiving yourself. Which is what you need.
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2007-06-16 12:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea .. thats true ! Even though we repent so much.. it doesn't help... we feel so bad thinking about that. The only person who can forgive is God. So we have to repent whole heartedly & wait for response from God.
2007-06-15 05:34:31 · answer #11 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋