I am thirteen and flat chested .?

Question

So i am going into 8th grade and to a new school ,i already have been called a dike so how do i not get a bad reputation at my new school. ANY HELP?

Answer 1

Just because you're "flat chested" doesn't automatically mean that you're not feminine. You're still very young. Your body will make many other changes between now and the time you graduate from high school. So be patient. In the meantime, there are LOTS of other things you can do to make yourself look more feminine. Try some new hairstyles, put on some pretty colors of lipgloss like pinks, reds, oranges. If you like jewelry, wear a dainty necklace and bracelet set, or some short, dangle earrings (they have inexpensive stores like Claire's in the mall where you can find all types of fun jewelry). When you go shopping for school clothes, try to find outfits that have fluttery sleeves and soft fabrics with pretty prints. And when you wear skirts or dresses, a fluttery hem is always dainty and feminine! There are SO many things you can do to help you look and feel "girly". So embrace the femininity inside you and allow it to shine on the outside. It's GREAT being a GIRL! :o)

Answer 2

If you're new at this school you will be attending in the fall I assume, then how can anyone there know anything about you enough to form any opinion about you? My first impression from reading your question is that you have a poor attitude about yourself, low self esteem. This new school thing is just what you need to start off again with a clean slate.
Help yourself out, don't tell your new friends that you just meet how poorly you feel about yourself or that you've been called a dike, you'll set yourself right back up to where you left off. Don't worry about the size of your chest, at 13 the best thing you can do for yourself is learn all you can and you will discover there are many things in life you can do well and be respected for.

Answer 3

No worry's you will probably grow soon. But If your mother or sisters (if you have any) are flat then there is a possibility you wont be too big either.
But if your female relatives have 'em I'm sure you will get them someday too. Keep in mind many girls grow at 20 yrs old, my friend did she was very small chested but suddenly they just grew.

If you do remain flat chested keep in mind that being flat is beautiful too. I'm 19 and flat, it used to bother me but I like it now. It's part of who I am. And think of it this way, you don't have to wear a sports bra when you run! That and many models have small chests too.

As for the dike comment kids are so immature at that age, they will grow up soon. Just don't let it bother you. Be yourself and I'm sure people at your new school will love you.
Love your body and your self, Peace out.

Answer 4

First off, RELAX!!!

Getting a chest is part o growing up. I am younger than you and wear a "b" so just calm down. It's gonna come. If you feel like waiting isn't an option, talk to your mom about your genetics and then about gettin a special bra. Thy have new ones out that make you look fuller. Babe, Don't sweat it. If you think you re gonna get called names because your flat, You need to get your head checked. lol. Just have faith and patience God meant for you t be like this and soon you are gonna find out why. Besides, all the pain you went through at your old school is just preparing you for the rest of your Middle School Experience.

Hope I helped
Relax!!

p.s. to get your mind off your troubles, take a spa day and let your mind wander

p.p.s (or is it P.s.s.....) If you are athletic and lift weight or run a lot, you might not start fully developing until you're 16. If you ft this criteria, ask your mom to take you to a pediatrician or maybe even a short Doctor (slang nae) and get checked out. he can answer any questions you have on developing.

Answer 5

Honey, I'm 26 and still flat but if someone ever says anything I just say, "hey at least they're perky" or "I'm just glad they stay out of my armpits when I lay down" or something like that...as for the kids at your school, taking care of yourself and caring about your appearance will go a long way. It has basically nothing to do with the size of your chest, these kids probably have their own mental probs to work out so they're picking on you. At your new school, be confident and have a great personality to show them that you don't deserve to be picked on.

Answer 6

sweety, i understand your situation. you are however not alone in that situation. the best antidote to that is first to appreciate yourself no matter what you think you are! what can't be cured must with patient be endured. in your case, you are just 13; growth i know normally ceases around 24. you still have a lot of years to develop. try seeing a doctor and see if somethg can be done about it anyway. dont waste all your precious study and fun times thinking on the impressions you make on people. sometimes people's attention arent really on us, but the moment you tend to do somethg aukward by hiding or shunning friends company, you set the pace for people to look out for what really is wrong with you. feel relaxed and confident. afterall others are worse off. i cant see out there, but i still admire you, and i would do more if you take the initiative first by admiring yourself.

enjoy your teenage years. be careful though. you can contact me: [e-mail]. for advice

Answer 7

I'm 13 too, and I'm also flat chested. also i'm going to the 8th grade next year. I know how you feel, because all of my friends have grown except me. Actually i'm a 32A and that's pretty small. I know someday everyone grows, so don't worry. You just have to tell yourself you'll grow, because you will. You never know what could happen over the summer ;)

Answer 8

Well trust me you will get boobs lol now I am not trying to upset you but I am 12 and I wear a 30 to a 32 A that isn't huge or anything I have matured fast though...but like hm....maybe just try to show those people that it isn't all about the looks or what you have in your shirt it is about who you are and why you are O.K. with being flat chested.....try....and you will succeed!

Answer 9

people can be mean and stupid, you can always give them the finger...? Honestly though, you just haven't hit your growth spurt yet, I had the SAME problem. They should grow out of nowhere by the time you reach mid-ninth grade. They might not be "huge", but who wants those anyway? they cause back problems and balence problems, then when you get old, they sag more! boobs are boobs, you arent a "dike" just cause you dont have them YET, plenty of dikes have boobs.;)

Answer 10

I am 13 too, and flat chested. Don't worry about it- just act like a star and everyone will love you for who you really are. No one even comments on me being flat chested (I mean, I'm not TOTALLY flat, but there is nothing that big to look at or anything...) so just ignore them.