How do u convince a pretty person that she is not ugly??

Question

i am 14 and lately i have been having low self confidance issues. i know im not ugly and no one says i am but i complain about everything. im too skinny, my face is brokeout, my eyes are busy, my hair is a mes, there is hair on my back etc.i think im ugly but no one else does. how do i raise my self confidance?

Answer 1

u know u r not ugly then y do u worry ............................................i have not met u but u still sound good at heart ..........................it is how good u r that matters and not how beautiful..........................whats the use of beauty if there is not even a bit of goodness in that person...............don't worry about how u look if u r good at heart then evryone will find u as the most beautiful girl in the universe (which u already are)

Answer 2

it sound mean but im talking from experience here avoid looking in a mirror to long for a few weeks just hangout with friends and have a good time you will start to realize that noone sees the little things you notice about you self and if they see a breakout or something they dont care and they like you anyway and soon you will feel comfortable with your self and when you do take a long look in the mirror again YOU will not notice the little things. I do this whenever i start feeling that way and it helps me realize that the general population cares more about your personality then your looks i dont really know why it works but it does!

btw you have nothing to worry about you sound beautiful so just have fun life is too short to worry about the little crap dont miss out on fun stuff cause your worried about how you look your young and have so many fun memories to make with friends

Answer 3

I struggled with myself for a long time. Getting someone who really loves you for who you are helps, but you're still very young. I would just remember that everyone has an awkward stage and that no-one is ugly. If I were you, I'd get myself to a salon: get a facial, a nice haircut, a mani, pedi and wax (if you really want to, I absolutely hate waxing). Buy yourself something that you feel really pretty and comfortable in - you will find something and put on some make-up. Find your best feature (pretty mouth, nice cheekbones, cute nose, beautiful/extraordinary eyes...) and concentrate on that when you make-up. Accentuate what you like best. Make yourself feel special and look in your mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful, because you are!

The best thing I've heard was: Never frown, for you never know when someone might be falling in love with your smile...

Answer 4

For You formed my inward parts;
You covered me in my mother’s womb.
I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;[b]
Marvelous are Your works,
And that my soul knows very well.
My frame was not hidden from You,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.
And in Your book they all were written,
The days fashioned for me,
When as yet there were none of them.

(Psalm 139:13-16)


I can see it through your words and your heart, you are beautiful, physical appearance is not the most important thing. If you are beautiful in the inside that will reflect your beauty of the outside. Know that you are created by a God who makes no1 ugly. Love and care for yourself. Stay healthy and motivated. You are still young and you will undergo many changes, so start believing and knowing that you are beautiful now.....

Answer 5

okay well this is what i do. i used to think i was ugly. all u do is just put on some makeup (natural so it doesnt look like ur actually wearing anything, this has worked for me), then gradually stop wearing makeup and youll think ur GEORGOUS!

Answer 6

I guess compare yourself to someone who is really not attractive are say it could be worse like you have hair on your back it could be worse like lets say if you had hair on your face just think you cant really see the hair on your back right?????

Answer 7

Read this question couple of times, watch less tv, dont worry about your looks and try to find something better to do (like a hobby)

Answer 8

my boyfriend's been trying to do that to me for the past 3 years... doesn't rly work, ha.
yr 14, so yr just going thru yr teen-angst faze. everyone goes thru it, i promise. it will go away. :]

Answer 9

I read most supermodels don't think they are attractive either. Most women are too critical of their appearance.

Answer 10

realize that you only have one life and its beautiful to live it