Why are women always going for the bad boy type of men?

Question

What's wrong with the nice guy who goes to school, works etc.. and wants to take you out.

Answer 1

For the thrill! :)

I've dated quite a few bad boys myself..... bad boys only make good short term summer flings ;)

with that said my current bf is a lawyer... and very good boy... oops! I mean man ;) and like diamonds.... good men are forever.

Answer 2

I love the guy who works,goes 2 school and etc.(by the way where is he?). I think women go for the bad boys bcuz they feel like if I can get this man 2 love me then I really am worthy of love. I think its basically a self-esteem issue, also I think some women are just jaded so they feel like all men are "bad" so why not be with the 1 thats being honest about it instead of dating the "nice" guy who is just going 2 turn out 2 be a wolf in sheep clothing

Answer 3

I was always considered a bad boy type and i guess i still am but, i have a job and i went to school. I think the bad boy type is more like guys who like to take chances such as having sex in public places and who is not afraid to experience new things. We like fast cars, beautiful women like yourself etc. I think one thing about me makes me a little different from most bad boy images and that is, i don't cheat on my ladies and i treat them with the same amount of respect as they treat me with. Alot of so called bad boys can't seem to be with only one lady at a time. As for the kind of guys who don't work...their not bad boys, their bums and women who want a bum deserve what they get. Guess what i'm trying to say is, that theres two kinds of bad boys...those who know how to treat a lady and who have jobs and those that don't. As for as what's wrong with a nice guy wanting to take you out on a date, i see nothing whatsoever wrong with that either since i'm also a nice guy who could take you out and not expect sex in return but instead a friendship that could grow if the chemistry was there. The only good relationships are those in which you become great friends before you become anything else!!!

Good luck finding Mr. Right and remember, what's right for someone else may not necessary be right for you!!!

Answer 4

My husband, a professional drummer in a rock band, may appear to be a bad boy but is in fact NOT, says that women don't really want a nice guy, they want a @sshole to be nice just to them. Makes them feel special I guess.

I say Women don't like bad boys, Girls do.

Along the same lines, there's a great article on how women pick flings vs mates on livescience.com

Answer 5

There's nothing wrong with that. But Bad Boys tend to be a bit more fun & can bring some excitement to the relationship.

Answer 6

There are many reasons for this.

I think one is that many of them have "bad" fathers and you always go for the relationship that seems familiar to you.

I also think they get caught up in sex appeal and such and forget it takes more than that to make up a relationship.

I DO NOT GO FOR BAD BOYS. In fact, I only dated one in my whole life and it was a terrible experience. I did'nt want him for the usual superficial reasons but because he seemed STRONG and like what I wanted. I also had other personal issues.

have a good day

Answer 7

Those guys might be gay.... I like a manly man with issues, or an emo guy with issues. Nice guys are always psychos lying in wait.

Answer 8

The Bad boys are always sexy and they are forbidden and they are fun. I can't help it myself, I dated bloods, crips, Mexican gang members, criminals,and drug dealers. Bad boys always seem to have money and I like it. But right now I'm dating a good guy who looks like a thug. He's going to school and he working really hard to buy his first house.

Answer 9

It has been my experience that a great many foolish women think that by loving these "bad boys", they will change them.

Answer 10

As a good guy myself, I always wish I knew...